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Post by Apple on Dec 23, 2010 20:16:26 GMT -5
When my ex got fixed, we had to sign something saying we would not hold the doctor responsible if it didn't "take"
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Dec 23, 2010 20:21:37 GMT -5
Didn't the guy go in for the sperm count 6-8 weeks later like he was supposed to? If not; one he's an idiot, and two there's no way the court is going to give him a damn thing. If he did; he knew the procedure didn't work and knocked his wife up anyway which again means no money from the court. I know that in our society we look for any reason to sue the crap out of somebody to make a nice life for ourselves, but this guy seems to have picked a really crappy case to go after.
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ken a.k.a OMK
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Post by ken a.k.a OMK on Dec 23, 2010 20:45:10 GMT -5
When my ex got fixed, we had to sign something saying we would not hold the doctor responsible if it didn't "take" Abstinence works. LOL
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Post by jan on Dec 23, 2010 20:49:05 GMT -5
Ken, abstinence makes for crazy people.
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Post by ken a.k.a OMK on Dec 23, 2010 20:51:39 GMT -5
Sorry Jan. <hug> I only did that for the required 6 weeks after birth. LOL
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Post by jan on Dec 23, 2010 20:55:19 GMT -5
You do know that 6 weeks is no long required right?
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Post by ken a.k.a OMK on Dec 23, 2010 20:58:27 GMT -5
No. How long is the wait now? Our youngest is 32. I believe it should feel right for the female or wait anytime.
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Post by jan on Dec 23, 2010 20:59:43 GMT -5
3 to 4, or when both are ready.
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Post by ken a.k.a OMK on Dec 23, 2010 21:00:51 GMT -5
Well at 63 and 62 I think we are both ready. LOL
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Post by ken a.k.a OMK on Dec 23, 2010 21:02:14 GMT -5
There's no edit feature here....anyway tomorrow we plan to be ready. I also miss some of the emoticons.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2010 21:28:52 GMT -5
Dark, a vasectomy is NOT a sure thing. My aunt had 2 kids after her husband had a vasectomy.....7 years after. Yes, he had his sperm count done after, but apparently his junk grew back. YES, the 2 kids are his.
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Post by moon/Laura on Dec 23, 2010 21:39:27 GMT -5
ken you can edit.. look above your post on the right side.. there's a button to Modify. also, if you would use the reply link instead of QUICK REPLY, you will see the emoticons.
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Post by 973beachbum on Dec 23, 2010 21:46:03 GMT -5
Angel, I have a Friend who had a vasectomy. About 10 years later surprise! The doc who preformed it just shrugged. He said it growing back isn't common but not unheard of. He was pretty pissed that the doc hadn't said that before.
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Dec 23, 2010 21:49:36 GMT -5
Dark, a vasectomy is NOT a sure thing. My aunt had 2 kids after her husband had a vasectomy.....7 years after. Yes, he had his sperm count done after, but apparently his junk grew back. YES, the 2 kids are his. I know. Unlike some people I actually read the pamphlets and paperwork I signed before getting mine. This guy apparently didn't, because the section on not holding the doctor responsible if the procedure is unsuccessful was pretty clear.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2010 21:54:02 GMT -5
I never read the pamphlets either. I would be one pissed off woman if DH's vasectomy failed. Would I sue? No...but I wouls still be PISSED off.
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Dec 23, 2010 21:56:30 GMT -5
I would be one pissed off woman if DH's vasectomy failed. Would I sue? No...but I would still be PISSED off. Well sure. That makes sense. I know I have a one in a thousand chance of my tubes growing back even though it's been years, I'd still be pretty pissed if it happened. Suing the doctor for something totally outside of his control is just stupid though.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2010 21:59:15 GMT -5
I would probably hurt myself or HIM. Cause it would be HIS fault..I just KNOW It would be his fault!!!!
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Dec 23, 2010 22:04:29 GMT -5
The rates of reattachment are lower on more recentish procedures. They use to just cut and cauterize. Now they usually cut, crush, cauterize, and clip. Or at least, that's what I tell myself when I wake up from nightmares where Loop has just given birth to triplets.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2010 22:07:35 GMT -5
I have nightmares about it too. I really really really really do not want anymore kids.
Then I was having nightmares because a girl I graduated with just became a grandma!!!! Yes, she had a kid in our 11th or 12 grade year (I can't remember, it was a long time ago) and that kid just became a teenage father. I THINK he is 16. SERIOUSLY freaked me out. I have a 16 year old stepdaughter and I am so not ready to be a grandma. I hope she is very very careful if she is having sex.
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Post by 973beachbum on Dec 23, 2010 22:08:38 GMT -5
That sounds like what my friend said. It was years ago and i think they just cut. It worked for years though.
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Post by wvugurl26 on Dec 23, 2010 23:13:54 GMT -5
Jan when DQ just had her baby this summer they said 6 weeks. Guess it depends on your ob/gyn?
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Post by joynerk on Dec 23, 2010 23:53:52 GMT -5
Ken, abstinence makes for crazy people. I think dh might try to use that as his defense...
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2010 0:26:38 GMT -5
I never read the pamphlets either. I would be one pissed off woman if DH's vasectomy failed. Would I sue? No...but I wouls still be PISSED off. Angel in my experience all pregnant women are pissed (in more ways than one).
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Dec 24, 2010 0:32:41 GMT -5
Then I was having nightmares because a girl I graduated with just became a grandma!!!! Yes, she had a kid in our 11th or 12 grade year (I can't remember, it was a long time ago) and that kid just became a teenage father. I THINK he is 16. SERIOUSLY freaked me out. I have a 16 year old stepdaughter and I am so not ready to be a grandma. I hope she is very very careful if she is having sex. My mom likes to screw with my sister and I. Her thing is if my sister's oldest daughter gets pregnant when my sister did, her 13 year old will be a mother in 3 years. If my oldest daughter gets pregnant when I did, my ten year old will be a mother in 8 years. We'd both be grandparents before we're 40. My mom can be an evil woman.
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