When does Flirting go to far?

[steff]

So maybe now you have a clue as to how you make all the women you hit on feel. You don't seem to have liked it much because a "dude" isn't someone you would be interested in.....just like not every woman you speak with is interested in you.

think about it...

[beags]

Well damn, I never knew I cheated on my husband daily like that. I'm ALMOST ashamed of myself. All the time he was at work, just like me. Hell sometimes I flirt right in front of him.

Hmm, me thinks people have no idea what flirting is and some people have no sense of humor at all.

I have people at work, of the opposite sex, who slap my hinder once in a while. Do I consider that sexual harrassment? NO! Because we are joking around when they do it. I tell them to take a switch with them next time.

Then I come home and tell my hubby what was said and done, and we have a good laugh.

Ya, it's just awful the things I do to my husband while he is away. I'm a horrible rotten cheater. I know.

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Jan 7, 2013 21:17:00 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

yea I agree flirting has gone to far when the other person is uncomfortable in a bad way!

That's probably how the women in your office (and everywhere else you hit on them) feel - think about it.

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Eeew, Ratchets. I agree. Keepa yer mitts to yerself! An office environment is no place to be pawing people.

[ZaireinHD]

LOL - not sure if it's really flirting - though she did flirt in the office. she is on the older of life side
and she would say Hello - reach UP cause most of us guys are much taller - with both hands hold our face - bring us down for a peck on the lips!
LOL at first we didn't speak of it cause she would only do that when no one was around! then we started talking about it and found out she was doing this to a lot of us. Then I spoke to another guy that happened to be her neighbor and he said yea she has always been like that!
LOL
she even did that with my work wife! LOL I said REALLY!
she said she would try and turn to the side for kiss on cheek - but then she would grab her face and go for lips!
oh boy too funny!

[ZaireinHD]

Jan 7, 2013 23:08:54 GMT -5 beags said:

Well damn, I never knew I cheated on my husband daily like that. I'm ALMOST ashamed of myself. All the time he was at work, just like me. Hell sometimes I flirt right in front of him.

Hmm, me thinks people have no idea what flirting is and some people have no sense of humor at all.

I have people at work, of the opposite sex, who slap my hinder once in a while. Do I consider that sexual harrassment? NO! Because we are joking around when they do it. I tell them to take a switch with them next time.

Then I come home and tell my hubby what was said and done, and we have a good laugh.

Ya, it's just awful the things I do to my husband while he is away. I'm a horrible rotten cheater. I know.

yea beags - it really depends on the person. on the line of flirting. I guess hand to ass is more accepted in certain work environments than others - sure I can see that! ;D
take that hand t ass while working at MTV corporate and it's not a problem and seen often around the offices - but then take that to AIG Insurance corporate and you most likely would stop that from happening.

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PLEASE explain once and for all WTH a "work-wife" is - somone you're seeing on the side while you have a live-in GF at home?

[ZaireinHD]

guess I shouldn't? post details. but in my opinion that will leave lots of questions when I keep things short. But oh well!!
I was in a mall department store recently pointing and looking for the item I wanted but didn't see it.
I was asked do I need help? I said sure I don't see what I'm looking for and tell her the item.
she said they don't have it and then went to find the stock guy to confirm, she then went to the register to look up the item.
she then offered she has 4 boys, lives in the area, worked there for years, and used to live in the same city of my new residence, and how she hated it there!, and how she doesn't like the mall, and she is big into sports (but made sure NOT to mention which sport), AND she is NOT like most women! she also offered 2 other stores where I could find the item I wanted.

WOW - okay

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Jan 5, 2013 7:29:23 GMT -5 Reckless Roselia said:

Flirting is no longer flirting when it becomes sex.

Exactly. When it becomes about sex,- it's no longer flirting. It's more like seduction then. 

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Jan 4, 2013 14:45:44 GMT -5 ZaireinHD said:

I have not thought that flirting can turn sexual. I just thought flirting was something more ...playful.

maybe because I don't see or have not recognized flirting in a sexual way? I would think she is making an advance towards me than flirting.

Flirting to me is what the receptionist does towards me at work. Just yesterday she said:
Hello Zaire - good to see you - I haven't seen you in a while - I miss seeing your sweet smile. Other days she says to me
Hi Zaire - you look good in that color shirt and tie, yellow looks good on you. She even said wow Zaire are you losing weight, I can see it looks like you have slimmed down.

That is what I consider flirting.

That's what I call flirting too. She's certainly very complimentary towards you and it's extremely obvious. I only do that when I have a crush on somebody.

[ZaireinHD]

AWH Jenn!

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Flirting to me is what the receptionist does towards me at work. Just yesterday she said:
Hello Zaire - good to see you - I haven't seen you in a while - I miss seeing your sweet smile. Other days she says to me
Hi Zaire - you look good in that color shirt and tie, yellow looks good on you. She even said wow Zaire are you losing weight, I can see it looks like you have slimmed down.

That is what I consider flirting.

That's not flirting - that's just her being polite & making small-talk as you come into the office - nothing more. She probably does the same with others there too.