weltschmerz
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Post by weltschmerz on Dec 18, 2012 20:41:31 GMT -5
::1. One of my husband's 'friend' has been hitting on me. It started less than 48 hours after my husband was found dead. Thankfully, he 100 miles away and has never been here. But still, that's beyond being an asshole. :: I'd be REALLY sure that he's hitting on you. Sometimes it's hard for guys to try to be caring without coming across as hitting on you. And women tend to think that EVERYONE is hitting on them, since in general guys don't bother talking to you unless they actually are. But I can also imagine how tough it might be to make sure someone knows you're available to help out, and trying to keep up the contact to make you feel like you're not alone, without coming off as flirting. There's "I think he's hitting on me" and then there's "He directly said I should have sex with him". Given that you 2 haven't seen one another, so nothing physical was attempted, I'd be really sure before I decided to cut out one of my late-partner's friends. Women always know when someone is hitting on them. You've never been a woman, so you don't understand. A man doesn't have to come out and say "I want to have sex with you" in order to be hitting on a woman. If ICNH says he was hitting on her, then he was hitting on her. It's good enough for me.
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