Green Eyed Lady
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Dec 10, 2012 15:59:13 GMT -5
I think there are truly some people who, having been invited once or twice (which you say you have done) do not understand that isn't an open invitation.
I didn't see that part. Sorry. That is suspect behavior. Perhaps she is just trying to stay out of your way and give you your kitchen to yourself so as not to bother you. I like to think the best of people until they give me a reason not to.
Again, she doesn't sound like the sharpest crayon in the box. I would think you might have given some extra thought to boarding a 30 year old woman who doesn't yet have even a part of her life together. Besides. Maybe she stole that stuff, too. From your store.
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Green Eyed Lady
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Dec 10, 2012 16:01:13 GMT -5
You feel sorry for her. That's a good thing. I guess you are just going to have to find a balance between wanting to do something nice for someone and having your own life infringed upon. You'll never find a balance without honest conversation. Good luck.
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Post by tloonya on Dec 10, 2012 16:27:25 GMT -5
I am thinking of taking her food once...and see. ;D I think I am overestimating education in peoiple which does not equal brains! I would think 'education' = 'intelligence' but noopsie poopsie!
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Post by Rocky Mtn Saver on Dec 10, 2012 16:31:51 GMT -5
I see that now that Looney daughter is off at college, she feels the masochistic need to have another teenager/parent relationship to fill the void.
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Green Eyed Lady
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Dec 10, 2012 16:33:46 GMT -5
I am thinking of taking her food once...and see. ;D I think I am overestimating education in peoiple which does not equal brains! I would think 'education' = 'intelligence' but noopsie poopsie! I'd go one better, Looney. Go get something of hers and wear it to work.
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Post by tloonya on Dec 10, 2012 16:37:50 GMT -5
I see that now that Looney daughter is off at college, she feels the masochistic need to have another teenager/parent relationship to fill the void. That too...how did you guessed? Except I wanted to be nice mommy this time. She wouldn't let me. And I hate her for that! I was nice though for...3 whole month!!! Thanks Heavens my real child is coming home soon! She will let mommy be mean...
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Dec 10, 2012 16:41:02 GMT -5
Wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiire haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaangers?
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Post by tloonya on Dec 11, 2012 13:48:48 GMT -5
Wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiire haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaangers? I am afraid I didn't get it...
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Post by Deleted on Dec 11, 2012 14:04:58 GMT -5
Wait, she's been there 3 months and you're still waiting for her to pay for the 2nd month?
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Post by Rocky Mtn Saver on Dec 11, 2012 14:08:37 GMT -5
By the way, Looney, if you're going to use my words as your signature, please have the decency not to mis-quote me? Thanks.
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Post by tloonya on Dec 11, 2012 14:28:05 GMT -5
By the way, Looney, if you're going to use my words as your signature, please have the decency not to mis-quote me? Thanks. Decency? I am fully dressed!
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Post by Rocky Mtn Saver on Dec 11, 2012 14:50:44 GMT -5
Not biting.
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Post by tloonya on Dec 11, 2012 15:56:57 GMT -5
Not using any bait...
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Post by Peace77 on Dec 11, 2012 16:14:46 GMT -5
You can't just evict someone by changing the locks and throwing out things in the back yard.
If you aren't happy, you have to tell her why.
If she didn't pay the rent, you have to write her a note that says Pay the rent or Move out. Your city will have a time limit that she has to pay the rent. Some cities give the tenant 3 days and some give the tenant 5 days to pay or move out.
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Post by midjd on Dec 11, 2012 16:18:51 GMT -5
Again - laws schmaws!
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Post by tloonya on Dec 12, 2012 13:27:43 GMT -5
Rent finally paid. TP and detergents are purchased so I think we are going to be fine. However I got a lot of good out of you so thanks and have a good day!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 8:50:29 GMT -5
Is this the Oriental gal who you said you love, love, love and were determined to treat her exactly as a daughter? You'd begrudge your daughter a cup of tea? Good morning,welts. In Asia, where I came from. We call ourselves Asian people. Have a good day.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 9:10:11 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 9:19:31 GMT -5
Correct me if I'm wrong, Loony, but I don't think your really here wanting a solution. I think you can handle things just fine on your own. I think you are merely expressing dismay over the liberties your tenant is taking. Hi lone. I think so, too. ;D
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 9:49:35 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2012 9:56:12 GMT -5
lone, Good as can be.... Have a wonderful Holiday Season with your love one.
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Post by tloonya on Dec 14, 2012 12:38:26 GMT -5
I don't know what to make of it but I had towels in a washer before I left and when I came back it was...folded. ...and I don't want THAT!!!
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Post by justme on Dec 14, 2012 12:43:56 GMT -5
I don't know what to make of it but I had towels in a washer before I left and when I came back it was...folded. ...and I don't want THAT!!! Just tell her from now on if she needs to do laundry and your stuff is in the washer to just throw the wet stuff on the ground. Problem solved!
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Post by tloonya on Dec 14, 2012 13:04:46 GMT -5
I don't know what to make of it but I had towels in a washer before I left and when I came back it was...folded. ...and I don't want THAT!!! Just tell her from now on if she needs to do laundry and your stuff is in the washer to just throw the wet stuff on the ground. Problem solved! I am very sorry you had never heard of laundry basket
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Post by justme on Dec 14, 2012 13:26:39 GMT -5
Just tell her from now on if she needs to do laundry and your stuff is in the washer to just throw the wet stuff on the ground. Problem solved! I am very sorry you had never heard of laundry basket I'm very sorry you're offended (or something) that she was nice enough to dry and fold your stuff. I'd be estatic if one of my previous roommates had done that.
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Post by tloonya on Dec 15, 2012 12:24:13 GMT -5
I am sorry you are sorry I am offended but it is ok really however I do not feel comfortable with people touching my undies and my DHs undies that were with towels I didn't even know and I will probably make a list who is washing their stuff when.
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Dec 15, 2012 12:27:56 GMT -5
You wash you undies with your towels? Don't you get fuzzy balls on your undies?
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Post by tloonya on Dec 15, 2012 12:56:31 GMT -5
You wash you undies with your towels? Don't you get fuzzy balls on your undies? Not in mines...DH got for sure... And no I do not wash anything with towels purposely but however they get there - they got there! Its a mistery same as 'where the other sock went'?
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Dec 15, 2012 13:03:32 GMT -5
It isn't a mystery in my house. My washer eats them.
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Post by tloonya on Dec 15, 2012 14:23:33 GMT -5
But face it, washer is never late with rent money! Thats an upside. Another thought, maybe you should blame dryer. Why is it always supposed to be washer to blame?
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