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Post by Deleted on Nov 28, 2012 11:36:31 GMT -5
get rid of the H - but then if she was willing to do that - maybe the son wouldn't have gone down the same road? He is not H's son. Was he around when her son was younger and at home? The alcoholic stepdad effect is just as bad.
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mrsdutt
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Post by mrsdutt on Nov 28, 2012 12:00:18 GMT -5
Have the husband and her move in with the children saying she can't afford 2 families. Then she can leave and visit the grandchild when she wants. Buy the baby clothes at a thrift store and books and try to influence the baby with strength of love. Don't bring any money with her when she picks up the child. Say no to everything else. Keep husband as a deduction until she gets the nerve to him. How's that for cold and calculating? I hope their bills aren't in her name. What a mess that would be for her.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 28, 2012 12:02:39 GMT -5
kidnapping children usually does not make ones situation better. There is a reason people prey on drug addicts. What are the two drug addicts going to say to the police when grandma takes the kid? "Hey police my mom took my kid and wont give her back just because we are snorting herion and cooking meth in the bath tub. She also didn't pay our rent for next month before doing it. You need to arrest her and give the kid back to us so we can get back to shooting up and snorting our drugs." yes.
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cronewitch
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Post by cronewitch on Nov 28, 2012 14:40:55 GMT -5
My brother had an ex girl friend give birth to a child that was said to be his. She was on drugs and had left him while pregnant and at 6 months the baby was taken from the mother by the maternal grandmother. He had spinal meningitis and the mother and a guy were taking the babies drugs to see if they got high while the baby had seizures, so her cousin took the baby to the grandmother. She called my brother and said he could have his son, come and get him. So he took the baby across state lines without the mother's consent and went to a lawyer. The grandmother forced her daughter to sign over custody or be turned in to CPS, she had taken the older child away after a boyfriend beat him, blinding him and she didn't want to raise more kids. My brother was able to adopt his son. Mom thinks the boy isn't his but he is 30 now so nobody really cares who the bio father was.
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