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Post by pig on Apr 4, 2011 8:06:21 GMT -5
So I was at the gym yesterday and was introduced to this incredibly HOT girl. She looked 20 but was in her 30s. She kind of looked like that chick Jesse James or whatever that dolts name was.
She had the darkest black of hair down to just above the middle of her back and one arm was covered in tattoos. Her body was SMOKING HOT. I mean......oh never mind.
Anyway, we start talking and the guy who introduced us says "She looks incredible for having three kids doesn't she?!" I was thinking Ugh, time to leave.
Women are so much more understanding of a single person having kids aren't they? I wouldn't touch that with a 10 foot pole. Oh well.
/sigh
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2011 8:08:25 GMT -5
<----- is glad she only has 2 kids
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Post by pig on Apr 4, 2011 8:09:03 GMT -5
Oh you didn't see her Beer. /DROOL
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Post by michelyn8 on Apr 4, 2011 12:33:16 GMT -5
Women are so much more understanding of a single person having kids aren't they? I wouldn't touch that with a 10 foot pole. Oh well. Do you mean more understanding of a divorced/widowed man who already has children and may not want more versus a "single" man who doesn't seem to get that he can prevent that cursed child support obligation by keeping his pants zipped? Because I have no sympathy for the latter. My personal experience has been that as long as a female (divorced/widowed/never married) with a child or two can pop out another for the man who never had any or wants more, she's acceptable, but those like me that have kids and can't/won't have anymore are like the anti-christ to some men because we're just looking for someone to support us and not willing/able to make them feel more manly by popping out a symbol or two of their virality. I also live in an area that is very ass backwards when it comes to men's attitudes towards women at times. For every one that values a woman with a brain and the ability to support herself and family if needed, there are a dozen who still think a woman shouldn't think for herself or do more than care for the kids and home. Sadly, the latter bunch are the ones who usually are hit hardest in times like this because wifey has no skills to get more than a minimum wage job to replace the $14/hour job they lost when their employer laid they off.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Apr 4, 2011 12:44:56 GMT -5
((Interetsting PIG...))
Your words: Poor woman, woman having 3 kids plus being HOT, ...and you not touching this with a ten foot pole.
interesting ....very interesting.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2011 12:45:02 GMT -5
So I was at the gym yesterday and was introduced to this incredibly HOT girl. She looked 20 but was in her 30s. She kind of looked like that chick Jesse James or whatever that dolts name was. She had the darkest black of hair down to just above the middle of her back and one arm was covered in tattoos. Her body was SMOKING HOT. I mean......oh never mind. Anyway, we start talking and the guy who introduced us says "She looks incredible for having three kids doesn't she?!" I was thinking Ugh, time to leave. Women are so much more understanding of a single person having kids aren't they? I wouldn't touch that with a 10 foot pole. Oh well. /sigh well good thing you're not looking... RIGHT?
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Post by Bluerobin on Apr 4, 2011 12:50:45 GMT -5
Pig, they only view you as a monthly child support check. Run!!!
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Post by pig on Apr 4, 2011 13:04:35 GMT -5
Jenny you know me. I don't know Blue lol Yes, Mich I would guess the latter I don't really know though.
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Post by Bluerobin on Apr 4, 2011 13:07:04 GMT -5
mich, some prefer those who can no longer pop out kids.
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Post by flopsy on Apr 4, 2011 13:12:59 GMT -5
i'm so confused. Pig, were you saying even if you could you wouldn't touch a hot woman if she has kids? or is it she had a bunch of kids outside of matrimony?
time to go to the gym and look like a sweaty disgusting mess.
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Post by pig on Apr 4, 2011 13:14:04 GMT -5
Yes, Flopsy that's what I was saying.
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Post by thyme4change on Apr 4, 2011 13:44:44 GMT -5
If anything ever happens to my husband, I can use the mere existance of my kids to weed out all the assholes.
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Post by pig on Apr 4, 2011 13:49:04 GMT -5
I don't think you'll have any problem staying single lol
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Post by thyme4change on Apr 4, 2011 14:00:00 GMT -5
I'm hot and rich.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2011 14:02:18 GMT -5
and an accountant.
The ultimate triple threat.
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Post by thyme4change on Apr 4, 2011 14:09:33 GMT -5
You know it!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2011 14:33:00 GMT -5
What makes you think men with kids are acceptable? Lots of women I know won't go near a hot guy with 3 kids with a 10 foot pole. Especially if he is the one raising them.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2011 14:36:00 GMT -5
there's no such thing as a hot accountant. <<runs before all the accountants beat her to death>>
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Apr 4, 2011 14:44:38 GMT -5
What makes you think men with kids are acceptable? Lots of women I know won't go near a hot guy with 3 kids with a 10 foot pole. Especially if he is the one raising them. ...Just desserts.. If he makes more money..why go thru the hassel of chasing him down for child support or of having to raise the amount of child support...give him the burden of raising the kids. Your kids always know who their MaMa is.
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Post by Artemis Windsong on Apr 4, 2011 14:47:37 GMT -5
I'll join you Flopsy at Zumba in a few hours. ETA I will tell my smokin' hot GDs to use the kids at home side step.
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Post by Bluerobin on Apr 4, 2011 14:51:02 GMT -5
Good point Later!
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Post by ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ on Apr 4, 2011 14:53:43 GMT -5
Why wouldn't they be acceptable? I'd consider a guy raising 3 kids on his own a good quality, not a turn-off...it sure beats a guy with 3 kids who expects the Ex to raise them (and often with no financial or emotional support).
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2011 14:57:01 GMT -5
Before even considering the quality of the man, a lot of women do not want to raise 3 more kids.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Apr 4, 2011 15:02:21 GMT -5
Even a man of nobleness is likely to back slide and have another take a major (if not all) the role in this responsibility with regard to 3 children in addition to the other domestic tasks.
A nanny/au pare would be helpful.
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Post by michelyn8 on Apr 4, 2011 15:07:39 GMT -5
If anything ever happens to my husband, I can use the mere existance of my kids to weed out all the assholes. Kids can be a very good gauge in weeding out the bad ones. If the attitude didn't set off my warning bells, my kids would usually pick up something that made them dislike the guy which was always a death sentence on anything further. My kids rarely outright disliked anyone I dated so I knew to trust their instincts. I consider my current situation nearly ideal though.............I have my kids and BF has his with his late wife. We're both happy with what we have and don't feel the need to expand our combined brood.
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Post by DebMD (banned) on Apr 4, 2011 15:10:22 GMT -5
Kids are reallly good til at stuff like this til they get 'contaminated' by society.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2011 18:51:14 GMT -5
If anything happened to my husband I wouldn't get remarried. I would date, but I have zero desire to get married and give my children a step-dad. I have zero desire to have anymore children. Would I date a guy with kids? Probably since I don't plan on ever getting married again. I would want my own place and him have HIS own place.
I am stuck in my ways. I don't want to have to adjust to another person again.
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Post by Miss Tequila on Apr 4, 2011 19:10:50 GMT -5
Why wouldn't they be acceptable? I'd consider a guy raising 3 kids on his own a good quality, not a turn-off...it sure beats a guy with 3 kids who expects the Ex to raise them (and often with no financial or emotional support). I have two of my own children. I would not want to be raising FIVE freaking children. My head hurts just thinking about it. I wouldn't consider that guy to be poor quality, just not a good fit for me. Of course, if I were to divorce I would never remarry again (fool me once....LOL)
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Post by Miss Tequila on Apr 4, 2011 19:11:31 GMT -5
If anything happened to my husband I wouldn't get remarried. I would date, but I have zero desire to get married and give my children a step-dad. I have zero desire to have anymore children. Would I date a guy with kids? Probably since I don't plan on ever getting married again. I would want my own place and him have HIS own place. I am stuck in my ways. I don't want to have to adjust to another person again. I should have read further because you basically said the same thing...
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Post by Miss Tequila on Apr 4, 2011 19:12:31 GMT -5
there's no such thing as a hot accountant. <<runs before all the accountants beat her to death>>
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