weltschmerz
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 15, 2018 16:49:18 GMT -5
I see that were a couple of responses to my comment about my wife's black eye, how they received their black eyes. My question is, didn't you see something about their personality when you were dating?? Your EX drinks?? where did you meet them? in a bar?? Or were they normal when you met them, now they are idiot's....How many idiot's have you been thru?? Maybe the problem is looking back at you in the mirror! Mine didn't drink or do drugs until near the end. It was more than a year before the first slap and the next 4-5 years was only one more slap and a push but dozens of threats if I didn't act the way he wanted. After that I told him I would leave if even threatened, wasn't going to live in fear so he quit. Then he started drinking after 16 years and got violent again so I left. Clearly, the problem wasn't him, but you. Just ask OldCoyote/AnonymousSource
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NastyWoman
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Post by NastyWoman on Feb 15, 2018 16:49:26 GMT -5
And based on the questions posed my xH, who never as much as laid a finger on me, should have been a horribly violent man? First of all I met him during Mardi Grass celebrations → a total stranger and we both drank. Worse that meeting a bar and a drinker right? We got married a few years later. And after more than 30 years we divorced. There never was any violence in our relationship, but I sure as hell did not divorce the man I married. We both had changed and gone in different directions. Why in the world does anyone think that the person they meet and fall in love with will always be the same person? Life changes people and if that works out for a couple I am very happy for them but they don't get to claim that they are therefore so much better than others who were not as lucky. That is a display of hubris of an unbelievable level.
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