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Post by dezii on Feb 9, 2018 16:22:07 GMT -5
that he has a complaint on....he just can't let it go and hasn't a clue of what ot means to be and act Presidential...I predict that if he does run for a second term and loses, this onw will not go quietly...If u think his four years have been a complete cluster fuck, trust me, you haven't seen anything yet. ================================= "https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2018/02/donald-trump-just-attacked-oprah/ -------------------------------------------------- Older thread and comments.. The gut just does not get it. U would think his daughter...his wife...other close females in the family would be able to sit down with him...just the gals...no males and have a heart to heart with him and explain how wrong his tweets and remarks to the media are...hurting himself and the woman of the country... ============================== "In a week when two White House staff members resigned amid domestic abuse allegations, President Donald Trump lamented in a tweet Saturday that lives are being “destroyed by a mere allegation.” --------------------------------------------------- abcnews.go.com/Politics/trump-weighs-domestic-abuse-claims-departure-staffers-true/story?id=52985531---------------------------------------- This thread hi jacked for new header..old post is below... ==================== Old Header below... I am thinking the conversation between Rob Porter and our Donald might have run along the lines of.. as Donald put his arm around Porters shoulders as he walked him to the oval office door... "Real sorry Rob about this..if those damn photos hadn't come out..we could have weathered this..been there, done that or similar...just a damn shame...call me anytime...if I can help, will try to for ya guy....U want to take a weekend and re charge...just use one of the resorts ..just let the chief of Staff know...give him a heads up...he'll make the arrangements...take care, be good" ------------------------------------- abcnews.go.com/Politics/white-house-staff-secretary-resigns-amid-allegations-domestic/story?id=52909802&cid=clicksource_4380645_1_hero_headlines_bsq_image
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Post by OldCoyote on Feb 10, 2018 6:22:12 GMT -5
You know, I have a picture on my phone of my wife with a black eye,, How did she get it?
She was taking one of our dogs to the Vet, Did not put the car into park, picked up the dog to go inside, drove into the side of the building.
Causing damage to the bumper, hitting her face on the steering wheel.
Now, she could put that picture on Facebook, if she was mad at me,, suddenly I would be a wife beater!!!
Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here!
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Post by bean29 on Feb 10, 2018 8:53:15 GMT -5
You know, I have a picture on my phone of my wife with a black eye,, How did she get it? She was taking one of our dogs to the Vet, Did not put the car into park, picked up the dog to go inside, drove into the side of the building. Causing damage to the bumper, hitting her face on the steering wheel. Now, she could put that picture on Facebook, if she was mad at me,, suddenly I would be a wife beater!!! Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here! Well, I had a black eye once too. How did I get it? I was strapping my 2 year old in his stroller and he was fighting me, having a temper tantrum. He kicked me in the eye. I was very embarrassed b.c. I thought everyone would think my husband hit me. Very few people would lie about something like this. There are apparently 3 people accusing Rob Porter of Domestic Violence. What are the odds? If you have kids with someone, don’t you want them working so you can collect child support? Dosn’t he have kids with one of the ex’s? I think telling lies is something you need to be willing to do, to be a part of the Trump Administration.
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on Feb 10, 2018 9:47:41 GMT -5
I was under the impression there was a police report for at least one of the women. Filed while in Italy on vacation.
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Post by billisonboard on Feb 10, 2018 10:16:33 GMT -5
... Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here! Instead of, "Hi honey, how was your day?" "Not bad. And yours?" "Good. Hey, did you happen to catch me on CNN talking about how you hit me?" "No. I was working." "No problem. I recorded it so we could watch it together." "That was nice of you. I will pop us some popcorn."
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Post by bean29 on Feb 10, 2018 10:42:49 GMT -5
I have an ex. I had animosity for a year or two, now I wish him well, I would not interfere with his job. Technically he owes me $$. I have moved on. I would wish him well and not even bring it up. I am sure these women were terrorized. I believe them. He is prolly still using threats.
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Post by Tennesseer on Feb 10, 2018 11:14:48 GMT -5
You know, I have a picture on my phone of my wife with a black eye,, How did she get it? She was taking one of our dogs to the Vet, Did not put the car into park, picked up the dog to go inside, drove into the side of the building. Causing damage to the bumper, hitting her face on the steering wheel. Now, she could put that picture on Facebook, if she was mad at me,, suddenly I would be a wife beater!!! Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here! There are several very good reasons why EXs are often EXs: one is spousal abuse.
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Post by The Walk of the Penguin Mich on Feb 10, 2018 16:59:37 GMT -5
You know, I have a picture on my phone of my wife with a black eye,, How did she get it? She was taking one of our dogs to the Vet, Did not put the car into park, picked up the dog to go inside, drove into the side of the building. Causing damage to the bumper, hitting her face on the steering wheel. Now, she could put that picture on Facebook, if she was mad at me,, suddenly I would be a wife beater!!! Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here! There is also a restraining order on file. 2 ex wives and an ex GF claiming abuse?
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Post by OldCoyote on Feb 10, 2018 17:22:06 GMT -5
Ok, I will concede the point.
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 10, 2018 17:51:44 GMT -5
If there's been one consistent thing about Donald Trump since he emerged as a presidential candidate in June 2015, it's this: When women accuse men of sexual assault or domestic abuse, Trump sides with the men. The most recent example of this trend has played out over the last 72 hours -- as Trump has repeatedly noted that Rob Porter, his former staff secretary, denies the charges of physical and emotional abuse levied against him by both of his ex-wives as well as a former girlfriend. www.cnn.com/2018/02/10/politics/donald-trump-abuse-claims-defense/index.html
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 10, 2018 17:55:53 GMT -5
Washington (CNN)David Sorensen, a member of the Trump administration's speechwriting team, has resigned after being accused of domestic abuse, a White House official says. He is the second administration official to resign this week over domestic abuse allegations, after top White House staffer Rob Porter resigned on Wednesday. According to a White House official, Sorensen's job with the Council on Environmental Quality did not require a security clearance, but his background check was ongoing. The Washington Post first reported Sorensen's resignation Friday evening, and reported that his ex-wife, Jessica Corbett, alleged that "he ran a car over her foot, put out a cigarette on her hand, threw her into a wall and grasped her menacingly by her hair while they were alone on their boat in remote waters off Maine's coast, an incident she said left her fearing for her life." www.cnn.com/2018/02/09/politics/david-sorensen-white-house-resign-domestic-abuse-allegation/index.htmlHe only hires the BEST people! The best domestic abusers, the best racists, the best sexual harassers, the best homophobes, etc.
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Post by tbop77 on Feb 10, 2018 19:31:51 GMT -5
I think this awakening of women will become Trump's legacy. I even agree with Steve Bannon: "You watch,” Bannon is quoted as saying. “The time has come. Women are gonna take charge of society. And they couldn’t juxtapose a better villain than Trump. He is the patriarch. This is a definitional moment in the culture. It’ll never be the same going forward . . . The anti-patriarchy movement is going to undo ten thousand years of recorded history.” www.vanityfair.com/style/2018/02/steve-bannon-thinks-the-golden-globes-signal-the-end-of-the-patriarchy-oprah
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Post by pooks on Feb 10, 2018 23:15:14 GMT -5
Why would he feel the need to talk to anyone? He has been saying things like this the whole time and it hasn't mattered. He has found that as long as he gives his base cover by denying things, that is all they need. It doesn't have to be believable or logical. He just has to deny or have whoever is involved deny it. His supporters don't care that the denial is a lie. They will hide behind the denial, pretending they believe it.
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Post by toomuchreality on Feb 11, 2018 2:17:42 GMT -5
He makes me shudder.
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 11, 2018 17:47:50 GMT -5
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Post by andi9899 on Feb 11, 2018 18:33:55 GMT -5
I have an ex. I had animosity for a year or two, now I wish him well, I would not interfere with his job. Technically he owes me $$. I have moved on. I would wish him well and not even bring it up. I am sure these women were terrorized. I believe them. He is prolly still using threats. I have an ex I have kids with. I wouldn't spit on him if he were on fire. I would never accuse anyone including him of doing something I knew they didn't do. Especially something that would/could cost them their job.
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 11, 2018 19:00:17 GMT -5
You know, I have a picture on my phone of my wife with a black eye,, How did she get it? She was taking one of our dogs to the Vet, Did not put the car into park, picked up the dog to go inside, drove into the side of the building. Causing damage to the bumper, hitting her face on the steering wheel. Now, she could put that picture on Facebook, if she was mad at me,, suddenly I would be a wife beater!!! Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here! I also had several black eyes. First husband would punch me in the face. Did I call the police? You bet I did! They told me he'll be fine when "he sleeps it off". "Well, little lady, it will be OK in the morning. Go back inside to your husband."
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 11, 2018 19:02:33 GMT -5
Trump would probably defend him.
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Post by hurley1980 on Feb 12, 2018 18:57:17 GMT -5
You know, I have a picture on my phone of my wife with a black eye,, How did she get it? She was taking one of our dogs to the Vet, Did not put the car into park, picked up the dog to go inside, drove into the side of the building. Causing damage to the bumper, hitting her face on the steering wheel. Now, she could put that picture on Facebook, if she was mad at me,, suddenly I would be a wife beater!!! Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here! You know, I also have a picture on my phone of myself with a black eye...how did I get it?
My ex got stupid drunk and cold clocked me right in the eye out of anger because my football team beat his in the playoffs.
He is now my ex, I wasn't trying to grind an axe, I got a god damn restraining order, asshole still cant be within 100 yards of me. He WAS and still IS a wife beater....his mistress turned 3rd wife is taking the brunt now.
The saddest part in all of this is how many of my friends didn't believe me and thought I was only doing it for attention. I have very few friends I trust anymore....after going through something like that only to find that everyone thinks your a liar, well, it causes one to have trust issues....
Your post reminds me why I don't talk about it anymore. Some people will just never believe the woman.
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 12, 2018 19:40:00 GMT -5
You know, I have a picture on my phone of my wife with a black eye,, How did she get it? She was taking one of our dogs to the Vet, Did not put the car into park, picked up the dog to go inside, drove into the side of the building. Causing damage to the bumper, hitting her face on the steering wheel. Now, she could put that picture on Facebook, if she was mad at me,, suddenly I would be a wife beater!!! Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here! You know, I also have a picture on my phone of myself with a black eye...how did I get it?
My ex got stupid drunk and cold clocked me right in the eye out of anger because my football team beat his in the playoffs.
He is now my ex, I wasn't trying to grind an axe, I got a god damn restraining order, asshole still cant be within 100 yards of me. He WAS and still IS a wife beater....his mistress turned 3rd wife is taking the brunt now.
The saddest part in all of this is how many of my friends didn't believe me and thought I was only doing it for attention. I have very few friends I trust anymore....after going through something like that only to find that everyone thinks your a liar, well, it causes one to have trust issues....
Your post reminds me why I don't talk about it anymore. Some people will just never believe the woman.
But noooo! Those poor men are such victims! Evil women lying about them, "shattering their lives".
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Post by thyme4change on Feb 12, 2018 21:44:35 GMT -5
Trump ruined our country with his mere allegations and no due process.
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 13, 2018 0:30:46 GMT -5
God, what an idiot! U.S. President Donald Trump delivered a vague jab at Canadian trade practices on Monday. “We lose a lot of money with Canada. Canada does not treat us right in terms of the farming and the crossing the borders,” he said at a White House event on his new infrastructure proposal. “So they’ll either treat us right or we’ll just have to do business a little bit diff… really differently,” he said. “We cannot continue to be taken advantage of by other countries.” www.msn.com/en-ca/news/canada/‘canada-does-not-treat-us-right’-trump-complains-on-trade-the-border/ar-BBJ33XG?li=AAadgLE&ocid=spartanntpWhat? In terms of the farming and crossing the borders? What does that even MEAN? No, you can't cross our borders with guns, despite the fact that it's your right as an American! You're not in America anymore. Is that what he means? Furthermore, the USA has a trade SURPLUS with Canada of about $8 billion. Does he ever know what he's talking about? I don't think so.
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Post by OldCoyote on Feb 15, 2018 10:40:29 GMT -5
I see that were a couple of responses to my comment about my wife's black eye, how they received their black eyes.
My question is, didn't you see something about their personality when you were dating?? Your EX drinks?? where did you meet them? in a bar??
Or were they normal when you met them, now they are idiot's....How many idiot's have you been thru??
Maybe the problem is looking back at you in the mirror!
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Post by dezii on Feb 15, 2018 11:01:30 GMT -5
You know, I have a picture on my phone of my wife with a black eye,, How did she get it? She was taking one of our dogs to the Vet, Did not put the car into park, picked up the dog to go inside, drove into the side of the building. Causing damage to the bumper, hitting her face on the steering wheel. Now, she could put that picture on Facebook, if she was mad at me,, suddenly I would be a wife beater!!! Have you ever noticed how these allegations are always from an EX,,,, Like no axe to grind here! You know, I also have a picture on my phone of myself with a black eye...how did I get it?
My ex got stupid drunk and cold clocked me right in the eye out of anger because my football team beat his in the playoffs.
He is now my ex, I wasn't trying to grind an axe, I got a god damn restraining order, asshole still cant be within 100 yards of me. He WAS and still IS a wife beater....his mistress turned 3rd wife is taking the brunt now.
The saddest part in all of this is how many of my friends didn't believe me and thought I was only doing it for attention. I have very few friends I trust anymore....after going through something like that only to find that everyone thinks your a liar, well, it causes one to have trust issues....
Your post reminds me why I don't talk about it anymore. Some people will just never believe the woman.
Am sorry Hurly....glad u are out of there...I have a ex too...when able to travel would meet up with her at Daughters in Concord , Mass for Thanksgiving...we got along fine...even would send her a Happy New Year card by internet ...occasionally...LOL... No never got physical with each other...once if I remember correctly close over who knows what...lots of $#*& at each other ...she more then I.... Her favorite.." You no good f son of a B "....got to the point I could sing it....been years since I remembered that one.... She did remarry...divorced again....me , no. Once was enough ...had good friends though...LOL
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Post by Tennesseer on Feb 15, 2018 11:03:54 GMT -5
I see that were a couple of responses to my comment about my wife's black eye, how they received their black eyes. My question is, didn't you see something about their personality when you were dating?? Your EX drinks?? where did you meet them? in a bar?? Or were they normal when you met them, now they are idiot's....How many idiot's have you been thru?? Maybe the problem is looking back at you in the mirror! The physical or emotional abuse may not be readily evident until after the marriage ceremony: "An abuser is typically:1. Charming. Initially, he showers his woman with praise, adoration, and attention. His courtship is sweet and intense filled with phrases such as, “I can’t live without you.” He quickly pushes for an exclusive relationship or engagement." 12 Traits of an Abuser
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Post by Tennesseer on Feb 15, 2018 11:05:17 GMT -5
I see that were a couple of responses to my comment about my wife's black eye, how they received their black eyes. My question is, didn't you see something about their personality when you were dating?? Your EX drinks?? where did you meet them? in a bar?? Or were they normal when you met them, now they are idiot's....How many idiot's have you been thru?? Maybe the problem is looking back at you in the mirror!Blame the victim, eh? Nice.
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Post by weltschmerz on Feb 15, 2018 14:50:27 GMT -5
I see that were a couple of responses to my comment about my wife's black eye, how they received their black eyes. My question is, didn't you see something about their personality when you were dating?? Your EX drinks?? where did you meet them? in a bar?? Or were they normal when you met them, now they are idiot's....How many idiot's have you been thru?? Maybe the problem is looking back at you in the mirror! Blaming the victim. Charming.
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Post by thyme4change on Feb 15, 2018 15:25:53 GMT -5
I see that were a couple of responses to my comment about my wife's black eye, how they received their black eyes. My question is, didn't you see something about their personality when you were dating?? Your EX drinks?? where did you meet them? in a bar?? Or were they normal when you met them, now they are idiot's....How many idiot's have you been thru?? Maybe the problem is looking back at you in the mirror! Holy shit. That is a horrible thing to say. It reflects poorly on you.
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Post by hurley1980 on Feb 15, 2018 16:06:39 GMT -5
I see that were a couple of responses to my comment about my wife's black eye, how they received their black eyes. My question is, didn't you see something about their personality when you were dating?? Your EX drinks?? where did you meet them? in a bar?? Or were they normal when you met them, now they are idiot's....How many idiot's have you been thru?? Maybe the problem is looking back at you in the mirror! To answer your questions. Yes I did see it in his personality when we were dating, because he had just returned from two tours in the middle east and was suffering from severe PTSD. I was hoping to help him through his struggles....guess that means I deserve it. Yes he drank, people drink. It only got worse after we were married. I met him in high school, at 16 years old. We married at 33 years old. I knew this man like I know myself. I never thought he would get so bad as to beat me, but he refused to get help for his PTSD and instead dove deep into addictions including drugs, alcohol and sex. Also, I have been through no idiots. My ex was not an idiot. He is a troubled person who refuses to get help and its turned him into an asshole that no one recognizes anymore. I don't know what else to say about it. He's not the person I knew at 16, he's someone else now.
By the time I called it quits for my own safety (and due to infidelity, which gave me an easy way out), pretty much everyone else, including his own family had abandoned him. I didn't want to be another one of those people, but I had no choice.
I look at myself everyday in the mirror and I wouldn't change anything about what I did or didn't do. If you want to put the blame on me fine, but don't you dare judge until you have been there!
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Post by cronewitch on Feb 15, 2018 16:22:27 GMT -5
I see that were a couple of responses to my comment about my wife's black eye, how they received their black eyes. My question is, didn't you see something about their personality when you were dating?? Your EX drinks?? where did you meet them? in a bar?? Or were they normal when you met them, now they are idiot's....How many idiot's have you been thru?? Maybe the problem is looking back at you in the mirror! Mine didn't drink or do drugs until near the end. It was more than a year before the first slap and the next 4-5 years was only one more slap and a push but dozens of threats if I didn't act the way he wanted. After that I told him I would leave if even threatened, wasn't going to live in fear so he quit. Then he started drinking after 16 years and got violent again so I left.
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