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Post by Deleted on Dec 29, 2017 13:27:33 GMT -5
I just wanted to know how she "know's" the sex is secondary. Which does not rule out the power/control point. I wasn't being clear as I thought. Because I've read up on it more than the average person. I also read a lot of literature and you'd be surprised how many people write in rape as character motivations. They write about the motivations of the rapist and it never because they want to have sex with person X. It is usually because they want to see them lose control if it is a woman, humiliate them (any sex, any age) or demonstrate their superiority or power over them or even a way to make someone pay (usually) female, for getting a promotion over them or something similar.
If I want a BF, I am not going to get what I want if I abduct him and hold him in the basement. Likewise, if your real goal is sex, rape is not the way to get it. I know this is confusing to some men who haven't been raped or sexually assaulted, but maybe you could start reading up on it. If its easier for you to understand, seek out stories from men or boys who have been sexually assaulted.
They have no superiority if they need to do this. I understand the mental shortcomings of the criminal mindset. There are too many variables to come to a conclusion on this, in regards to the three women coming forward on this again. I'll bow out of this conversation because of it's use as a vehicle for other messages to deliver. Not referring to you or swamp.
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thyme4change
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Post by thyme4change on Dec 29, 2017 14:26:50 GMT -5
I suspect that given how many rapes occur, there isn't a single answer to the question "why?"
I have watched you two debate this before, and it is entirely probable you are both correct in some number of cases. It is so pointless to continue to argue that there is one sole answer for every single rape, and if we just think about it hard enough we will make a simple, neat package with one concise motivation that will make everyone have a little lightbulb over there head. You are both right.
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