Heart2Heart......

[mmhmm]

Heart2Heart was last on the forums on September 4 of this year. She didn't post that day but had posted on August 28th. This is often a busy time of year for folks so I'm hoping she's just busy with life stuff.

[busymom]

I was just thinking I haven't seen her in awhile.  I hope all is well.  

[mmhmm]

Sept 29, 2017 15:08:16 GMT -5 darla said:

Thank you for the replies ladies.   Her and I email, but I haven't received an email since Sept. 3rd, so I am worried. I have sent her several emails with no responses.   I have no other way to connect with her.   I pray that everything is okay with her. 

I hope so, too! Please, keep us updated when you hear from her.

[Tennesseer]

Sept 29, 2017 15:08:16 GMT -5 darla said:

Thank you for the replies ladies.   Her and I email, but I haven't received an email since Sept. 3rd, so I am worried. I have sent her several emails with no responses.   I have no other way to connect with her.   I pray that everything is okay with her. 

Darla-when you say you email each other, are you using this board's email system where you know each other only by your posting names and not each other's real names? Or do you email each other outside of here where you would know each other's real name and the city and state you each reside. If you know her real name and what city she resides, have you tried to look her up on the Internet.

[toomuchreality]

Sept 29, 2017 15:40:11 GMT -5 Tennesseer said:

Sept 29, 2017 15:08:16 GMT -5 darla said:

Thank you for the replies ladies.   Her and I email, but I haven't received an email since Sept. 3rd, so I am worried. I have sent her several emails with no responses.   I have no other way to connect with her.   I pray that everything is okay with her. 

Darla-when you say you email each other, are you using this board's email system where you know each other only by your posting names and not each other's real names? Or do you email each other outside of here where you would know each other's real name and the city and state you each reside. If you know her real name and what city she resides, have you tried to look her up on the Internet.

Clearly, I am not techy, nor am I great at doing searches. But what good does looking someone up on the internet do, other than finding a name, address, phone number and stuff like that?  -just curious.  I've heard people say "You can find anything out on the internet." Don't you have to have special skills, or special accts to do that?   

[Tennesseer]

Sept 29, 2017 16:28:56 GMT -5 toomuchreality said:

Sept 29, 2017 15:40:11 GMT -5 Tennesseer said:

Darla-when you say you email each other, are you using this board's email system where you know each other only by your posting names and not each other's real names? Or do you email each other outside of here where you would know each other's real name and the city and state you each reside. If you know her real name and what city she resides, have you tried to look her up on the Internet.

Clearly, I am not techy, nor am I great at doing searches. But what good does looking someone up on the internet do, other than finding a name, address, phone number and stuff like that?  -just curious.  I've heard people say "You can find anything out on the internet." Don't you have to have special skills, or special accts to do that?   

As morbid as it may be, if you know the person's full name, city and state they live, and a little bit about their life, you can find a person's obituary. I hope that is not the case here.

[ken a.k.a OMK]

On the old msn boards I don't think there was a message feature like here. Many of us shared email addy's, pictures (I was made keeper of email addy's and pictures. Some may remember Kodak ken. ) and even phone numbers with people we trusted, although strangers. In addition a few gave a relatives number to call in an emergency. Some of those same people are here. You know who you are  . Also some of us are now friends on fb and a few private groups.

[ken a.k.a OMK]

Sorry I don't have any personal info for her.

[Tennesseer]

darla -I went back and looked at a few of Heart2Heart's most recent posts to see if anything out of the ordinary was going on in her life. I imagine you have read her post below, but if you had not, her dad is having medical problem which may be the reason she is not currently posting.

While the below post won't help your search for her, it may explain here absence.

Jun 6, 2017 7:14:46 GMT -5 @heart2heart said:

Jun 4, 2017 20:58:04 GMT -5 Shooby said:

  I didn't go through that either.   All of mom's bills were paid in full by her out of her accounts.  I was POA so I was able to pay her bills out of her savings and retirement.  Luckily it didn't run out.  However, just consider that money gives you choices.  I was able to pay for her to have a private room.  If she was on MA, that would not have happened.

How long was your mom's stay? Or did she pass away? (I am already asking you to forgive me in the same breath, if that is not her case.) My dad's stay would more than likely be for the rest of his life, barring a miracle.

I am also POA, but at the same time will have to give a detailed account of what happened with every dime, should I apply for medicaid assistance or if paying - When/if the money runs out. Nursing home care is extremely expensive. A six to twelve month stay would nearly slay most of my dad's finances. Mom still has to be cared for. Her social security check is all the government will allow her should my dad be placed in permanent nursing care. 

[wyouser]

I hope you hear from her.

[toomuchreality]

Thinking of you, Heart.   Hoping you are okay. 

[Jaguar]

darla, heart2heart posted - ymam.proboards.com/thread/54382/heart