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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 9:50:53 GMT -5
Speaking of marrying Asian women - what about BeeinKC - he married one, but then he was so so miserable. She didn't work, he did and did all the kid /house stuff! That's my ex and his two buddies too. Chinese, Vietnamese and Thai wives. My ex goes home at lunch everyday not so that he can get a homemade meal, but so that he can cook something for them. LOL He does all the house and yard work and cooking. She did start working at McDonalds a few months ago in the evenings, but he thinks that's even worse because now he has to take care of everything with a 2 and 4 year old after he gets off work and she's not making much that it's really a financial help.
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Post by whoisjohngalt on Jan 3, 2017 11:00:20 GMT -5
Speaking of marrying Asian women - what about BeeinKC - he married one, but then he was so so miserable. She didn't work, he did and did all the kid /house stuff! That's my ex and his two buddies too. Chinese, Vietnamese and Thai wives. My ex goes home at lunch everyday not so that he can get a homemade meal, but so that he can cook something for them. LOL He does all the house and yard work and cooking. She did start working at McDonalds a few months ago in the evenings, but he thinks that's even worse because now he has to take care of everything with a 2 and 4 year old after he gets off work and she's not making much that it's really a financial help. He shoulda stayed with you.....
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 11:06:24 GMT -5
He shoulda stayed with you..... I tell him that all the time.
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Post by swasat on Jan 3, 2017 12:26:27 GMT -5
Speaking of marrying Asian women - what about BeeinKC - he married one, but then he was so so miserable. She didn't work, he did and did all the kid /house stuff! That's my ex and his two buddies too. Chinese, Vietnamese and Thai wives. My ex goes home at lunch everyday not so that he can get a homemade meal, but so that he can cook something for them. LOL He does all the house and yard work and cooking. She did start working at McDonalds a few months ago in the evenings, but he thinks that's even worse because now he has to take care of everything with a 2 and 4 year old after he gets off work and she's not making much that it's really a financial help. This is what boggles my mind. Are people not aware of how good they had? Did he have no idea before he married her that she will not be the one to work? I mean I know " in love" and all that...but it seriously amazes me that someone would basically sign up for something so one sided.
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Post by MJ2.0 on Jan 3, 2017 12:44:38 GMT -5
That's my ex and his two buddies too. Chinese, Vietnamese and Thai wives. My ex goes home at lunch everyday not so that he can get a homemade meal, but so that he can cook something for them. LOL He does all the house and yard work and cooking. She did start working at McDonalds a few months ago in the evenings, but he thinks that's even worse because now he has to take care of everything with a 2 and 4 year old after he gets off work and she's not making much that it's really a financial help. This is what boggles my mind. Are people not aware of how good they had? Did he have no idea before he married her that she will not be the one to work? I mean I know " in love" and all that...but it seriously amazes me that someone would basically sign up for something so one sided. unless she pulled the ol' bait and switch....
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 12:46:09 GMT -5
That's my ex and his two buddies too. Chinese, Vietnamese and Thai wives. My ex goes home at lunch everyday not so that he can get a homemade meal, but so that he can cook something for them. LOL He does all the house and yard work and cooking. She did start working at McDonalds a few months ago in the evenings, but he thinks that's even worse because now he has to take care of everything with a 2 and 4 year old after he gets off work and she's not making much that it's really a financial help. This is what boggles my mind. Are people not aware of how good they had? Did he have no idea before he married her that she will not be the one to work? I mean I know " in love" and all that...but it seriously amazes me that someone would basically sign up for something so one sided. He doesn't seem to mind, so maybe the sex is really good. Although, he has been starting to look like crap. He used to bike a lot and stayed in shape, now he looks about 8 months pregnant with a beer belly and just rundown a lot. I think it's wearing on him. I went to his 2 year old's birthday party last month and as usual the house was a mess and his wife didn't even bother to get out of her pajamas while he ran around and prepped the food for maybe 15 people. He did seem irritated at her about that and asked her if she was even going to get dressed (she didn't).
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Post by swasat on Jan 3, 2017 12:50:12 GMT -5
This is what boggles my mind. Are people not aware of how good they had? Did he have no idea before he married her that she will not be the one to work? I mean I know " in love" and all that...but it seriously amazes me that someone would basically sign up for something so one sided. He doesn't seem to mind, so maybe the sex is really good. Although, he has been starting to look like crap. He used to bike a lot and stayed in shape, now he looks about 8 months pregnant with a beer belly and just rundown a lot. I think it's wearing on him. I went to his 2 year old's birthday party last month and as usual the house was a mess and his wife didn't even bother to get out of her pajamas while he ran around and prepped the food for maybe 15 people. He did seem irritated at her about that and asked her if she was even going to get dressed (she didn't). Or maybe he IS stuck, but can't do anything about it since he is in so deep... I can be a bitch about these things, so I'd say "Serves Him RIGHT!" For not giving respect to the gold he had and instead running to something made out of tin!
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Post by andi9899 on Jan 3, 2017 12:57:07 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 12:59:40 GMT -5
No way. I have no feelings for him at all in that regard anymore. Honestly, we've always been more like brother and sister than anything even when we were together. He recognized that and ended it. It just took me longer to see.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 3, 2017 19:48:36 GMT -5
This is what boggles my mind. Are people not aware of how good they had? Did he have no idea before he married her that she will not be the one to work? I mean I know " in love" and all that...but it seriously amazes me that someone would basically sign up for something so one sided. He doesn't seem to mind, so maybe the sex is really good. Although, he has been starting to look like crap. He used to bike a lot and stayed in shape, now he looks about 8 months pregnant with a beer belly and just rundown a lot. I think it's wearing on him. I went to his 2 year old's birthday party last month and as usual the house was a mess and his wife didn't even bother to get out of her pajamas while he ran around and prepped the food for maybe 15 people. He did seem irritated at her about that and asked her if she was even going to get dressed (she didn't). He's stuck with her now. He can't get rid of her!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 22:13:57 GMT -5
He doesn't seem to mind, so maybe the sex is really good. Although, he has been starting to look like crap. He used to bike a lot and stayed in shape, now he looks about 8 months pregnant with a beer belly and just rundown a lot. I think it's wearing on him. I went to his 2 year old's birthday party last month and as usual the house was a mess and his wife didn't even bother to get out of her pajamas while he ran around and prepped the food for maybe 15 people. He did seem irritated at her about that and asked her if she was even going to get dressed (she didn't). He's stuck with her now. He can't get rid of her! Yeah, no kidding. If he divorced her, she'd head back to China and take the kids, or she'd stay and he'd get stuck with paying a ton in child support and alimony. Neither seems attractive.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 3, 2017 22:15:17 GMT -5
He's stuck with her now. He can't get rid of her! Yeah, no kidding. If he divorced her, she'd head back to China and take the kids, or she'd stay and he'd get stuck with paying a ton in child support and alimony. Neither seems attractive. Karma is a bitch
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 3, 2017 22:15:45 GMT -5
Yeah, no kidding. If he divorced her, she'd head back to China and take the kids, or she'd stay and he'd get stuck with paying a ton in child support and alimony. Neither seems attractive. Karma is a bitch Is she a citizen?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 22:16:43 GMT -5
I actually think he really loves her though. Not sure why, but whatever...not my life.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 22:17:17 GMT -5
Yes, just got it earlier last year I think.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 3, 2017 22:18:48 GMT -5
He IS screwed now.
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Post by milee on Jan 3, 2017 22:20:09 GMT -5
I thought you were asking if Karma was a citizen. I've had some wine.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 3, 2017 22:28:28 GMT -5
I just remember years ago my mom had a friend named Lisa from Germany that married a soldier stationed there. She returned to the US with him and had a daughter immediately then started screwing around on him. The guy found out and threatened to send her back to Germany sans daughter and because she wasn't a citizen, he could. My mom chewed her out royally for being such a fool.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 22:41:11 GMT -5
Well, this one isn't screwing around. She'd have to get off the couch first.
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Post by Jaguar on Jan 3, 2017 22:45:42 GMT -5
I thought you were asking if Karma was a citizen. I've had some wine. Thanks for laugh.
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Post by naughtybear on Jan 4, 2017 10:12:34 GMT -5
You really only have to be married two years to be a permanent resident and then no kicking out can happen.
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Post by andi9899 on Jan 4, 2017 11:20:09 GMT -5
Since KS recognizes (or at least did back in the 90s, don't know if it does now) common law marriages, Baby Daddy got citizenship from me without us actually having been married. I don't know for a fact, but he has no common sense to research anything, likely he took our divorce decree to a lawyer to show that we were "married" for several years in the US. I thought it was stupid that we had to divorce, but the lawyer said that it was the easiest way to do things. Ironically, the man who slept with anyone who would stand still long enough while we were together, remarried. His wife screwed around on him and had a kid outside of their marriage who he is now raising with her. Ha!
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Post by NastyWoman on Jan 4, 2017 17:23:54 GMT -5
Since KS recognizes (or at least did back in the 90s, don't know if it does now) common law marriages, Baby Daddy got citizenship from me without us actually having been married. I don't know for a fact, but he has no common sense to research anything, likely he took our divorce decree to a lawyer to show that we were "married" for several years in the US. I thought it was stupid that we had to divorce, but the lawyer said that it was the easiest way to do things. Ironically, the man who slept with anyone who would stand still long enough while we were together, remarried. His wife screwed around on him and had a kid outside of their marriage who he is now raising with her. Ha! How can you divorce without being married?
di·vorce noun 1. the legal dissolution of a marriage by a court or other competent body. "her divorce from her first husband" synonyms: dissolution, annulment, (official) separation "she wants a divorce" verb 1. legally dissolve one's marriage with (someone). "he divorced his first wife after 10 months" synonyms: dissolve one's marriage, annul one's marriage, end one's marriage, get a divorce "her parents have divorced"
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Post by imawino on Jan 4, 2017 17:27:39 GMT -5
Since KS recognizes (or at least did back in the 90s, don't know if it does now) common law marriages, Baby Daddy got citizenship from me without us actually having been married. I don't know for a fact, but he has no common sense to research anything, likely he took our divorce decree to a lawyer to show that we were "married" for several years in the US. I thought it was stupid that we had to divorce, but the lawyer said that it was the easiest way to do things. Ironically, the man who slept with anyone who would stand still long enough while we were together, remarried. His wife screwed around on him and had a kid outside of their marriage who he is now raising with her. Ha! How can you divorce without being married?
di·vorce noun 1. the legal dissolution of a marriage by a court or other competent body. "her divorce from her first husband" synonyms: dissolution, annulment, (official) separation "she wants a divorce" verb 1. legally dissolve one's marriage with (someone). "he divorced his first wife after 10 months" synonyms: dissolve one's marriage, annul one's marriage, end one's marriage, get a divorce "her parents have divorced"
I believe she is saying they had a recognized common law marriage. In that case, you really should formally dissolve it.
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Post by NastyWoman on Jan 4, 2017 17:31:21 GMT -5
She did say that but I still can't see how you can legally dissolve something (paperwork etc.) that doesn't legally exsist (again paperwork etc.) I know in California you could get some rights like alimony but that doesn't feel quite the same as a divorce
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Post by NoNamePerson on Jan 4, 2017 17:56:04 GMT -5
I thought you were asking if Karma was a citizen. I've had some wine. I've only had a diet pepsi and I thought the same thing.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 8, 2017 20:30:24 GMT -5
What about the guy that lived in a motorcycle shop or something like that. Was that here or a dream I had lol? Yeah, that was the precursor to here (MS YM). He was a really colorful old guy. Had a handle like "Theablilitytodoasyouplease" or something like that. He was really rich, and he was so cheap he pinched. He lived in a bike shop in the back, and slept on and old cot. Of course he had comely young women coming around, even though he suggested that one good way to make money was to pick up pennies that he found in urinals. He used to save money on construction renovation projects by hammering straight old used nails. He had stories that went on for miles, and back years. I don't think anybody believed any of it, but it was colorful. I don't know what happened to him. Yes! I read some of his posts when I first found the place but don't know if they were current then or already old. He was really colorful and fun to read.
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Post by Reckless Roselia on Jan 20, 2017 18:50:28 GMT -5
We were on a little British politics and news site called MSNUK. (I still have some of these posters on FB) We were, however, aware of other MSN sites.... and occasionally used to pop over to MSNBC Some people used to go to see a friendly American poster they called "Ghosty" and some Americans used to come to post with us for a while....notably an intelligent woman who was some sort of wiccan. (avoiding a troll) When MSNBC closed we got to know some more people. A really entertaining story teller who claimed to be Swedish. Prince of darkness. mmhmm was there and moonbeam Flying Horse, of course...Everyone loved her. The US poster I miss most is... Shirina......She was just awesome. Such a way with words. We are all over the place now. Time sure flies. I have surely missed conversing with you Spell. Hope you have been well.
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