joemilitary
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Post by joemilitary on Oct 9, 2015 9:01:04 GMT -5
Condolences Zib. Sorry to hear about this. You seem like such a great person. Praying for you
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myrrh
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Post by myrrh on Oct 9, 2015 9:28:42 GMT -5
Oh Zib. I am sorry your time together was cut short. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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bean29
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Post by bean29 on Oct 9, 2015 9:51:49 GMT -5
Zib, my thoughts are with you in this difficult time.
I am glad the two of you were able to celebrate your love for each other by getting Married, and that he was able to walk his DD down the aisle.
We are here for you when you are ready to rejoin us.
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lexxy703
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Post by lexxy703 on Oct 9, 2015 10:06:47 GMT -5
Zib, I'm so sorry to hear this news. Please take care of yourself. Hugs.
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wyouser
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Post by wyouser on Oct 9, 2015 10:14:39 GMT -5
Very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you. We are here for you.
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Angel!
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Post by Angel! on Oct 9, 2015 10:35:20 GMT -5
I'm so sorry zib.
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Icelandic Woman
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Post by Icelandic Woman on Oct 9, 2015 10:41:22 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss Zib. My thoughts are with you.
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jeep108
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Post by jeep108 on Oct 9, 2015 11:03:22 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss, Zib.
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zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Oct 9, 2015 14:06:16 GMT -5
I went out to the grave. His father and younger half brother are also there. His Dad was 62, his half brother 32. DH was 61. I'm almost glad that bio of his was a girl because the men in his family don't seem to live very long.
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t-dog
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Post by t-dog on Oct 9, 2015 15:42:33 GMT -5
Zib - so sorry to hear of Mr. Zib's passing. Hugs.
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obelisk
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Post by obelisk on Oct 9, 2015 17:50:09 GMT -5
My condolences for your loss. Wishing you the best moving forward in the future.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 9, 2015 18:00:22 GMT -5
Aww Zib, so sorry to hear this.
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dannylion
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Post by dannylion on Oct 9, 2015 20:23:27 GMT -5
I'm so sorry, Zib. Holding you and your family in my thoughts.
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OldCoyote
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Post by OldCoyote on Oct 9, 2015 20:23:08 GMT -5
I am so sorry to hear this Zib
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Post by TheOtherMe on Oct 9, 2015 21:00:29 GMT -5
I am so very sorry, Zib, of the loss of your soul mate. I know the time you had together was short, but you did have it. I am also glad that he got to die in his own bed and that he did it his way. Please accept my condolences on your loss.
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zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Oct 9, 2015 21:46:05 GMT -5
I can tell you a funny or not story now that I can do it with a sense of humor. Two of his friends hit on me at his visitation. My college roommate just about punched the one. So I told DH's half sister who is the executor and she said the same damn thing happened to her when her first husband died. DH would not find that funny but OMG!
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Post by daisy on Oct 9, 2015 21:53:53 GMT -5
Zibazinski, I am a newer poster but I have followed your posts about you and your DH and the ups and downs through his illness and I'm very sorry to hear of your tremendous loss.
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Icelandic Woman
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Post by Icelandic Woman on Oct 9, 2015 21:55:14 GMT -5
I can tell you a funny or not story now that I can do it with a sense of humor. Two of his friends hit on me at his visitation. My college roommate just about punched the one. So I told DH's half sister who is the executor and she said the same damn thing happened to her when her first husband died. DH would not find that funny but OMG! OMG Zib!!! Enjoy it, you are a very beautiful woman!
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Mardi Gras Audrey
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Post by Mardi Gras Audrey on Oct 10, 2015 1:46:34 GMT -5
Zib, I am so sorry for your loss. How y'all found each other again after all those years is so inspirational. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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mmhmm
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Post by mmhmm on Oct 10, 2015 2:10:01 GMT -5
I can tell you a funny or not story now that I can do it with a sense of humor. Two of his friends hit on me at his visitation. My college roommate just about punched the one. So I told DH's half sister who is the executor and she said the same damn thing happened to her when her first husband died. DH would not find that funny but OMG! Sweetheart, it makes me smile to read this. It lets me know you're okay. Your sense of humor is intact. That's my zib! Lotsa hugs and hope for the future!
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toomuchreality
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Post by toomuchreality on Oct 10, 2015 4:14:18 GMT -5
Thinking of the two of you, zib "Gone are the days we used to share But in our hearts you are always there Never more than a thought away Loved and remembered every day" You and your love are such an inspiration, in so many ways. I hope before long, you'll be back posting. Sharing more of your wisdom and thoughts. We need that kind of thing around here. Until then, remember that many of us peeps care deeply for and about you. We hold you near and dear to our hearts. Wanting only the things that make you happy. Like all the others, I'm saddened to hear of your loss. Please take care of you ♥
(((BIG hugs))) -tmr
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dannylion
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Post by dannylion on Oct 10, 2015 11:06:30 GMT -5
I can tell you a funny or not story now that I can do it with a sense of humor. Two of his friends hit on me at his visitation. My college roommate just about punched the one. So I told DH's half sister who is the executor and she said the same damn thing happened to her when her first husband died. DH would not find that funny but OMG! Well, that's so inappropriate that it is, indeed, weirdly funny.
People are stupid.
(It's good to see that your friends have your back.)
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Green Eyed Lady
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on Oct 10, 2015 11:15:19 GMT -5
I'm am so very sorry, Zib. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by The Walk of the Penguin Mich on Oct 10, 2015 11:17:51 GMT -5
Wow! I just saw this.
I'm sorry for your loss Zib.
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Gardening Grandma
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Post by Gardening Grandma on Oct 10, 2015 11:21:00 GMT -5
I am so sorry for Sib's loss.
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Ava
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Post by Ava on Oct 10, 2015 12:53:25 GMT -5
I'm very sorry you are going through this. The death of a loved one is one of the most difficult things we have to go through in this life. Think about all the good times you had together and how fantastic that he'll always be a part of you.
Keep rocking, girl.
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justme
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Post by justme on Oct 10, 2015 15:25:00 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss Zib.
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WholeLottaNothin
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Post by WholeLottaNothin on Oct 10, 2015 19:32:23 GMT -5
So sorry for your loss, Zib. You're in my thoughts.
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whispering17
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Post by whispering17 on Oct 10, 2015 21:37:06 GMT -5
I am so sorry,Zib.
I lost my hubby 6 years ago. My best piece of advice is to take an hour at a time...it will be a while before you can take a day at a time....and make no major decisions in your life right now. Cry when you need too....don't hold the pain inside. Huggles.........I'm sorry to say, I know what you are going through. Don't try to be strong...just feel whatever you feel.
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Tired Tess
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Post by Tired Tess on Oct 11, 2015 8:34:12 GMT -5
My heart breaks for you. So very sorry for your loss. I'm sure you were as beautiful a wife as you were a bride and the both of you were very happy together.
God bless you.
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