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Post by tigerpause on Oct 8, 2015 23:21:41 GMT -5
Just to let you know that others care and special thoughts go out to you. My sincere condolences.
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Sharon
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Post by Sharon on Oct 9, 2015 0:15:43 GMT -5
My deepest sympathy on your DH's passing.
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❤ mollymouser ❤
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Post by ❤ mollymouser ❤ on Oct 9, 2015 0:20:40 GMT -5
I am so very sorry to hear this, and I am sorry for your loss, Zib. May your find comfort in the warm memories of him. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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cronewitch
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Post by cronewitch on Oct 9, 2015 0:29:49 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss and hope you take comfort knowing you took great care of him.
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lund
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Post by lund on Oct 9, 2015 0:43:56 GMT -5
So sorry to hear about your DH's passing.
I'm glad that you had the strength to be with him and care so much for him during his illness - it must have been a great joy and comfort to him.
Take care of yourself during this difficult time of change.
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b2r
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Post by b2r on Oct 9, 2015 1:10:18 GMT -5
Sorry to hear of your loss.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 9, 2015 1:45:00 GMT -5
Well, shit. I am so so sorry Zib.
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Happy prose
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Post by Happy prose on Oct 9, 2015 3:31:23 GMT -5
So sorry Zib. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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Post by Bluerobin on Oct 9, 2015 5:39:30 GMT -5
Condolences, Zib. Take solace in the good times you had together. May he RIP.
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Post by debthaven on Oct 9, 2015 5:43:36 GMT -5
Oh I am so so sorry Zib! You are in my thoughts.
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imanangel
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Post by imanangel on Oct 9, 2015 5:59:09 GMT -5
My condolences Zib.
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ners
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Post by ners on Oct 9, 2015 6:01:22 GMT -5
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you Zib.
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zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Oct 9, 2015 6:10:42 GMT -5
That sucks. Oh, thyme, thank you. I was tearing up and read yours and started to laugh. You are SO very right. It does SUCK. He fought so hard and so long. Sometimes I just couldn't deal with it that well. There's a reason 60 year old women don't have children. But he was the love of my life and my soul mate and we had almost 6 years together. I wouldn't trade that and those memories for anything. He had a good day, that last day. I took him to his office, he spent several hours there. Came and got him and fed him dinner. He coughed and got a little sick to his stomach. No, I didn't poison him! Just wanted to go to bed and lay down. Watching that silly Pawn Stars show. Got in his night clothes, I dressed his heel, and he went to bed. I went in and out of course. I was worried he'd caught the flu bcuz we couldn't get his shot until mid/late October bcuz the doctor wanted it to protect him through the whole season. But other than an occasional cough, he was fine. I went to sleep on the sofa and came in around 4:20 am, covered him up and turned off the tv. He must have been gone then but it didn't register. My phone alarm went off at 7 and I went in and showered, got dressed and came out to get him up for physical therapy. Well, he decided no physical therapy. . At least he died at home in his own bed and not in the hospital. He got his wish to walk bio down the aisle. I'm glad for him for that. I bet she wishes she could get that four years back she didn't speak to him. At least I hope she does.
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Post by The Home 6 on Oct 9, 2015 6:22:02 GMT -5
Zib, I am so very sorry for you and for your family's loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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NoNamePerson
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Post by NoNamePerson on Oct 9, 2015 7:04:48 GMT -5
So sorry Zib.
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Value Buy
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Post by Value Buy on Oct 9, 2015 7:15:48 GMT -5
We all knew he was ill, but darn, I never expected this. Sorry for your loss. Neither of you deserved this. Not at this age.......
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ArchietheDragon
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Post by ArchietheDragon on Oct 9, 2015 7:29:06 GMT -5
Really sorry to hear, Zib
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Post by 8 Bit WWBG on Oct 9, 2015 7:34:50 GMT -5
There isn't enough profanity to describe this...
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by cael on Oct 9, 2015 7:35:19 GMT -5
I'm so sorry Zib. I'll be thinking of you..
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Post by Blonde Granny on Oct 9, 2015 7:41:02 GMT -5
I'm so sorry zib. Sometimes our lives take strange turns, but the love you shared will be close to your heart always.
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Oct 9, 2015 7:51:24 GMT -5
I'm heading to Orlando today, and it's just the strangest thing that I was thinking of her today, particularly her in her wedding dress. Oh, damn, damn, damn. I cannot express how sorry I am to hear this.
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Post by steph08 on Oct 9, 2015 7:52:48 GMT -5
Zib, I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by flamingo on Oct 9, 2015 7:59:27 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you had these last years together and many warm, happy memories to hold on to. You are in my thoughts!
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Waffle
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Post by Waffle on Oct 9, 2015 8:00:33 GMT -5
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Post by taz157 on Oct 9, 2015 8:17:23 GMT -5
((((Hugs)))) Zib.
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on Oct 9, 2015 8:27:05 GMT -5
Oh I am so sorry Zib.
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Post by muttleynfelix on Oct 9, 2015 8:31:51 GMT -5
So sorry Zib. Lots of love and hugs to you during this time.
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Post by 973beachbum on Oct 9, 2015 8:34:36 GMT -5
Aww I thought he had turned the corner. If you need I can be captain obvious and I think Thyme can be sarcastic. I'm sure we can find posters to be silly and ridiculous to put a laugh out there for you.
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The Captain
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Post by The Captain on Oct 9, 2015 8:37:37 GMT -5
My condolences for your loss. I am glad you did have some time together, though.
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GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl
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Post by GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl on Oct 9, 2015 8:51:50 GMT -5
Zib, I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you warm memories to soften the sadness in the days ahead. He died in love and being loved. That's pretty much all any of us wants in our final hours, and you gave that to him. May peace be with you.
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