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Post by nutty on Jul 2, 2015 13:23:09 GMT -5
Had a casual thing with E. I wake up this morning to 12 texts from him  The last of which was "On my way. Open your door" that wasn't cool. Why this shit. What kind of drugs do you have to be on to text like that and should I be worried. |
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Post by swamp on Jul 2, 2015 13:24:42 GMT -5
He's too needy. him.
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Post by ArchietheDragon on Jul 2, 2015 13:27:53 GMT -5
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Post by andi9899 on Jul 2, 2015 13:28:04 GMT -5
Was he drunk texting? I think I might let it slide if that's the case. Who hasn't done it at least once. It happens.
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Post by billisonboard on Jul 2, 2015 13:30:17 GMT -5
While having "a casual thing", did words like, "Oh I love it when you are aggressive" or "I love a man who knows what he wants" - etc come out of your mouth? If you said anything along those lines, the text makes perfect sense to me.
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Post by Opti on Jul 2, 2015 13:31:13 GMT -5
Archie, Is that a male Mallard pic with the head color changed to red or some other duck? Don't remember any ducks with red heads( ), but there are things like Cinnamon Teals or some such.
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Post by nutty on Jul 2, 2015 13:31:53 GMT -5
There is a lot of info missing there lol. It was a text out of the blue. I guess he was in town. He is too needy and insecure which I think is surprising, he isnt bad looking, very tall and a fire captain. Anyway the texts were of varying degrees of weirdness.
I deleted him when he had a a bit of a fit at the end of May. So it took me a second or two to actually figure out who it was. The texts from him were creepy last night, then too find 12 more creepy text. I am going to be honest and say this is so out of character that I am a bit scared he is going to show up at my door.
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Post by andi9899 on Jul 2, 2015 13:32:30 GMT -5
Wait. Is this the same person you haven't heard from in a while and had deleted his number? The one who started sending you pictures recently? If so, block his number!
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Post by ArchietheDragon on Jul 2, 2015 13:33:22 GMT -5
Archie, Is that a male Mallard pic with the head color changed to red or some other duck? Don't remember any ducks with red heads( ), but there are things like Cinnamon Teals or some such.
It does look like a red head, which is strange, because the duck is called a purple headed warrior duck. |
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Post by nutty on Jul 2, 2015 13:34:29 GMT -5
The first text last night was of the kind bills, I said are you drunk ? It was honestly so out of character that I would have to think drinking or drugs.
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Post by nutty on Jul 2, 2015 13:34:56 GMT -5
Andi refresh my memory.
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Post by kittensaver on Jul 2, 2015 13:35:19 GMT -5
There is a lot of info missing there lol. It was a text out of the blue. I guess he was in town. He is too needy and insecure which I think is surprising, he isnt bad looking, very tall and a fire captain. Anyway the texts were of varying degrees of weirdness. I deleted him when he had a a bit of a fit at the end of May. So it took me a second or two to actually figure out who it was. The texts from him were creepy last night, then too find 12 more creepy text. I am going to be honest and say this is so out of character that I am a bit scared he is going to show up at my door. Yeah - - if I had had a casual "thang" with some dude who disappears, and then frantically texts multiple times INSISTING that I open my doors to him - - I'd block him too!  |
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Post by andi9899 on Jul 2, 2015 13:35:30 GMT -5
There is a lot of info missing there lol. It was a text out of the blue. I guess he was in town. He is too needy and insecure which I think is surprising, he isnt bad looking, very tall and a fire captain. Anyway the texts were of varying degrees of weirdness. I deleted him when he had a a bit of a fit at the end of May. So it took me a second or two to actually figure out who it was. The texts from him were creepy last night, then too find 12 more creepy text. I am going to be honest and say this is so out of character that I am a bit scared he is going to show up at my door. Block the number. Do you have a large male friend or relative willing to sleep on your couch tonight? If it persists, you might consider a restraining order. Hopefully it doesn't get to that point. |
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Post by andi9899 on Jul 2, 2015 13:36:49 GMT -5
You had a thread about it recently if I have the right poster. |
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Post by NancysSummerSip on Jul 2, 2015 14:28:42 GMT -5
I have no idea what this means. In my day, "a casual thing" was a face-to-face date in a coffeeshop. Nowadays? That phrase could stand in for anything from a one-night booty call to living-together-but-still-seeting-other-people ('cause we're not sure yet).  |
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Post by ArchietheDragon on Jul 2, 2015 15:17:41 GMT -5
Was he drunk texting? I think I might let it slide if that's the case. Who hasn't done it at least once. It happens. Isn't there an age where you stop getting drunk? is dead an age? |
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Post by Robert not Bobby on Jul 2, 2015 15:22:46 GMT -5
Had a casual thing with E. I wake up this morning to 12 texts from him The last of which was "On my way. Open your door" that wasn't cool. Why this shit. What kind of drugs do you have to be on to text like that and should I be worried. You should chose your men more carefully. We are not all like that. |
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Post by Miss Tequila on Jul 2, 2015 15:38:28 GMT -5
Was he drunk texting? I think I might let it slide if that's the case. Who hasn't done it at least once. It happens. Isn't there an age where you stop getting drunk? Is this a serious question?? |
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Post by ken a.k.a OMK on Jul 2, 2015 15:40:19 GMT -5
Does tequila make you drunk? |
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Jul 2, 2015 16:14:56 GMT -5
Does tequila make you drunk? Not when you tell yourself it's just apple juice. |
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Jul 2, 2015 16:17:45 GMT -5
Nutty, here's my range of feedback. Now, of course, I'm not a guy. Feel free to select the one that you feel is most valuable/applicable.
1) This guy's great! He loves you, and you should marry him asap! He'll clearly be devoted to your for the rest of time; might as well take advantage of that.
2) Respond via text with "I'm sorry, my name is Jorge. I think you have the wrong number."
3) Respond via text with "Sounds great; when will you be here?" Then shoot him with a paintball gun from the upstairs window.
4) Regardless of which of the above you choose, find a better place to meet guys.
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Post by HoneyBBQ on Jul 2, 2015 16:32:16 GMT -5
Girl. We told you to run.
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Post by GRG a/k/a goldenrulegirl on Jul 2, 2015 16:56:52 GMT -5
Did he have the wrong number?
Maybe he thought you were his latest victim...we, umm, "casual thing".
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Post by Deleted on Jul 2, 2015 17:12:09 GMT -5
Had a casual thing with E. I wake up this morning to 12 texts from him The last of which was "On my way. Open your door" that wasn't cool. Why this shit. What kind of drugs do you have to be on to text like that and should I be worried. "Sorry, out of town, permanently" |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 2, 2015 17:13:36 GMT -5
Was he drunk texting? I think I might let it slide if that's the case. Who hasn't done it at least once. It happens. me? I must have way too big a stick up my ass . . . drunk calling/texting/emailing has never been in my repertoire. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 2, 2015 17:16:20 GMT -5
I have not. But I have drunk called, back before texting existed.
Omg taking a minute to consider if texting had existed at that point....
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Post by MJ2.0 on Jul 2, 2015 17:17:45 GMT -5
I've tipsy texted and posted - does that count?
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Post by nutty on Jul 2, 2015 17:22:32 GMT -5
As far as I am concerned it's done. He text (cop out but whatever) saying he was sorry to bother me he was obviously drunk texting, it will never happen again. I said thank you and deleted his bloody number again.
I choose hitting him with a paint ball. Which was actually similar to one of my texts back to him "yeah why not we only live once and we should do whatever we want..note the sarcasm. I thought you were much classier than that." along with WTH are you doing and are you drunk.
I was concerned about how much out of character it seemed to be. This was the guy who would "surprise" me at the bar, at first I was flattered and all gooey eyed, then it started to feel a bit stalkerish as I would never know when he would show up. So in retrospect......
I can choose to be done and I was.. I shouldnt have answered his text, I never expected it to end up being creepy, at first it seemed funny and I wasn't sure if he was just playing around. I have deleted his number again.
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Post by andi9899 on Jul 2, 2015 17:35:02 GMT -5
Was he drunk texting? I think I might let it slide if that's the case. Who hasn't done it at least once. It happens. Isn't there an age where you stop getting drunk? What Archie said. |
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