Gardening Grandma
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Post by Gardening Grandma on Jan 8, 2015 0:49:11 GMT -5
I haven't spent much time here lately, but do try and check in. I wanted to update those of you who were so supportive when DH was diagnosed with cancer last year.
Early in December, he had the brachytherapy (radioactive seeds). It seemed to go well; he had a follow up visit yesterday and there were no surprises. So far, the worst side effect is having to pee constantly but having trouble doing so. He's somewhat testy, probably due to not getting enough sleep.
Hopefully we will get through tne next couple of months and then be able to put this past us. Just wanted to let y'all know. And thank you for the support. I appreciate it.
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Post by Works4me on Jan 8, 2015 1:18:12 GMT -5
Thanks for the update and happy to hear that things are going well. Sorry that DH is cranky - if he has problems with incontinence, especially at night, you might ask about a condom catheters. Also, a urinal on the bedside table can be helpful - they even make done.that are spill proof and odor resistant. PM me if you need more information - my father had both prostate problems and bladder cancer. Sending love and hugs and support and a Teflon cape for you.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 8, 2015 1:41:57 GMT -5
All positive thinking for your DH treatment and recovery. How are you doing with it?
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Jan 8, 2015 1:51:10 GMT -5
Best wishes that he remains healthy and hopefully those other issues will go away so he can enjoy retirement and a long life with you. What does the doctor say about the current problems? Will those eventually subside? I'm a bit confused though. He's now cancer free, right? Your title made my heart drop but I'm hoping you are just using the last title/topic so we knew what you were talking about.  |
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Post by Jaguar on Jan 8, 2015 1:54:58 GMT -5
I wish your DH lots of happy more years with you and the family. Yes Cancer can be beaten, I'm 8+ years colon cancer free now. |
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Post by Blonde Granny on Jan 8, 2015 5:56:52 GMT -5
I noticed you had not posted recently, and you were missed. Sending good mojo and prayers for both of you.
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 8, 2015 6:35:07 GMT -5
DH had colon cancer almost 30 years ago. That won't be what gets him! Keep the faith. Medicine has vastly improved since even that time. Hugs.  |
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Post by NoNamePerson on Jan 8, 2015 6:39:58 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jan 8, 2015 7:14:19 GMT -5
I'm wishing you and your DH strength as you go through this together. 
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Post by wvugurl26 on Jan 8, 2015 7:18:04 GMT -5
Good thoughts for both of you on this journey. Cancer sucks!
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Post by moneymaven on Jan 8, 2015 7:56:22 GMT -5
I haven't spent much time here lately, but do try and check in. I wanted to update those of you who were so supportive when DH was diagnosed with cancer last year. Early in December, he had the brachytherapy (radioactive seeds). It seemed to go well; he had a follow up visit yesterday and there were no surprises. So far, the worst side effect is having to pee constantly but having trouble doing so. He's somewhat testy, probably due to not getting enough sleep. Hopefully we will get through tne next couple of months and then be able to put this past us. Just wanted to let y'all know. And thank you for the support. I appreciate it. My FIL also just had that treatment and is having the same issues. Thinking of you all! |
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Post by mmhmm on Jan 8, 2015 8:01:06 GMT -5
Thanks for the update! Glad things are going reasonably well for you and DH. It's a difficult time for him and I can understand why he's touchy. Hopefully, it won't be for too much longer. My very best wishes for a complete recovery.
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Post by taz157 on Jan 8, 2015 8:49:59 GMT -5
I noticed you had not posted recently, and you were missed. Sending good mojo and prayers for both of you. Yeah that. ((((Hugs)))) |
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Post by sesfw on Jan 8, 2015 10:21:07 GMT -5
Glad for the update GG ....... healing hugs to both of you.
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Post by HoneyBBQ on Jan 8, 2015 10:55:51 GMT -5
Glad to hear it, GG. His PSA is staying low? Did he discuss his urinary stricture with his physician?
Unfortunately that is a common side effect of prostate brachytherapy. Hopefully it will get better soon.
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Post by gacpa on Jan 8, 2015 14:41:37 GMT -5
Lots of positive energy and vibes coming at you and your husband. Stay strong.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 8, 2015 18:49:06 GMT -5
I've been wondering how both of you were doing. Thanks for updating with the good news. Hugs to both of you. XO
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Post by sapphire12 on Jan 8, 2015 22:03:01 GMT -5
GG and moneymaven -- Sending thoughts and prayers that your respective family members continue on the path to good health.
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Post by TheHaitian on Jan 8, 2015 22:31:08 GMT -5
Lots of positive energy and vibes coming at you and your husband. Stay strong. X 2 Keeping you in my prayers  |
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Post by cronewitch on Jan 8, 2015 22:42:39 GMT -5
My aunt had breast cancer in 1980, they said she was terminal, now she is 86 and doesn't have cancer. She had it again in the 80s but seems to be totally over it. Sometimes Chemo works, sounds like radiation is working for him. Hope he is cancer free when he is 100.
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Post by busymom on Jan 8, 2015 23:45:46 GMT -5
<HUGS> Wishing you & your DH the best possible outcome!
And yes, talk with his doctor about the problem with peeing. My Dad had difficulty with that when he was fighting prostate cancer. |
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Post by Happy prose on Jan 10, 2015 5:36:33 GMT -5
Great update! Prayers being said for good health.
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Post by seriousthistime on Jan 10, 2015 10:14:23 GMT -5
Wishing your DH a speedy and successful outcome, GG.  |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2015 17:51:52 GMT -5
DH had colon cancer almost 30 years ago. That won't be what gets him! Keep the faith. Medicine has vastly improved since even that time. Hugs. On a side note, Zib - How does it feel to say DH?
GG - hoping for the best for you and your DH. And I hope the worst is over!!!
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Post by zibazinski on Jan 10, 2015 18:40:24 GMT -5
Kinda weird, actually. I spent so many years unmarried and then I guess I wasn't really married except in name only so I've always been pretty much on my own. Now there's someone legally related to me that isn't a kid. Well, chronologically anyway!!
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Post by Jake 48 on Jan 10, 2015 18:51:16 GMT -5
-hug-and prayers!
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Post by tcu2003 on Jan 11, 2015 21:45:09 GMT -5
Thanks for the update, GG - glad to hear things are going well!
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Post by Gardening Grandma on Jan 15, 2015 20:43:12 GMT -5
Zib got married?! Congratulations! And my best to both of you.
DH saw his radiologist last week. The seeds are where they are supposed to be (good).
DH told him about all the problems he was having and the dr gave him a presc to use for just two weeks. It seems to help (more good news). But the side effects are insomnia and feeling like he's on speed. He can't sleep, is testier than usual. He doesn't want me talking to my sis about him (we are close). He was esp dickish today and I emailed sis, basically describing what was going on. I was just venting. I said nothing that wasn't true, but it was not flattering either.
Somehow, instead of sending the email to my sis. I sent it to him He blew up and stormed out of the house. Now I'm worried about him driving when he's that upset and irrational.
Sighing... I wish this were over. This is why I (selfishily) hoped he'd just continue the Active Surveilance approach...
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Post by taz157 on Jan 15, 2015 21:48:35 GMT -5
Just have for you GG. |
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