Does your spouse/SO know you post here?

[Deleted]

Wait...WHAT?!? I had no idea he had a stalker. Sorry to hear it. 

[cktc]

My SO knows I participate in a handful of forums. As far as I know he affords me my privacy, so I try not to be too mean. The pertinent stuff works its way into real life conversations, so there isn't really anything for him to gain from reading everything I write. If I got the feeling he was stalking my online activity I might be inclined to post a bunch of garbage just to wig him out. 

[Peace Of Mind]

Oct 17, 2013 11:37:44 GMT -5 The Walk of the Penguin Mich said:

Yes, in fact he used to post here until he started getting stalked. He knows where to find this place and can see what I write. I pretty much tell him what's going on anyway.

Give him hugs and gropes for us!  I was hoping that stopped and he could come back.  Can he try coming back again?  We'll kick his stalkers ass!  Unless it was me.    I was really really fond of your man. 

Yes DH knows I post here, no he doesn't care and even helps me with my technical issues.  He's also met 2 of the people I've met from here and enjoyed their company.  Especially the one that sleeps over.        I also show DH the things I say about him (which cracks him up) and the conversations with my internet boyfriends and girlfriends.  But he already knew I was "friendly". 

ETA:  FIXED! 

[Deleted]

psssst......it's spelled "friendly"..... 

[The Walk of the Penguin Mich]

Give him hugs and gropes for us! I was hoping that stopped and he could come back. Can he try coming back again?

Things have finally started to look like they're ending and I'm guessing that he does not want to rock the boat. Neither of us want it to start up again, as this person seriously has some major screws loose and concerned both of us enough that we started looking at self protection.

I groped him before he left for work this morning.....does that count?

[Sum Dum Gai]

Not anymore. I changed my name so she can't find me.

[imawino]

Oct 17, 2013 12:56:52 GMT -5 Sum Dum Gai said:

Not anymore. I changed my name so she can't find me.

Awesome disguise, dude! 

[greeniis10]

I guess I'm the minority: my DH knows I read a "money board" but I don't tell him I post nor does he know the site.  Nothing to hide.  I have ranted recently about DSD's wedding, but I said all of those things (and worse) to him in real life.  The reason I don't mention it is because I like to have something to myself; someplace where I have some anonimity and privacy.   DH is retired and is home 24/7.  Thankfully I work full time. 

I really enjoy this board and I have learned a LOT over the years and pretty much learn something new every day!  I would like to be able to talk to DH about all the diverse topics here, but lately we've been having communication issues.    Not sure why; maybe he isn't using his brain as much now as he's not working, but here's a standard conversation:
Me: "The sky is blue."
Him: "What?" (standard response to everything I say; yes his hearing is fine; his brain is retired, however)
Me: "I said, the sky is blue."
Him: "So you're saying something is red?  What is red?" 

Drives me insane, frankly.  I come here for some sanity.  Not sure if that is good or
bad...

[Miss Tequila]

Oct 17, 2013 9:54:11 GMT -5 Cookies Galore said:

HAH sits right next to me on the couch when I'm posting at night. He'll ask what my message board is talking about or I will bring up a thread that might interest him.

I believe he's met one of my friends from here. I can't remember if there was anyone else.

I met him a few years ago!

[Chocolate Lover]

Oct 17, 2013 13:18:06 GMT -5 greeniis10 said:

I guess I'm the minority: my DH knows I read a "money board" but I don't tell him I post nor does he know the site.  Nothing to hide.  I have ranted recently about DSD's wedding, but I said all of those things (and worse) to him in real life.  The reason I don't mention it is because I like to have something to myself; someplace where I have some anonimity and privacy.   DH is retired and is home 24/7.  Thankfully I work full time. 

I really enjoy this board and I have learned a LOT over the years and pretty much learn something new every day!  I would like to be able to talk to DH about all the diverse topics here, but lately we've been having communication issues.    Not sure why; maybe he isn't using his brain as much now as he's not working, but here's a standard conversation:
Me: "The sky is blue."
Him: "What?" (standard response to everything I say; yes his hearing is fine; his brain is retired, however)
Me: "I said, the sky is blue."
Him: "So you're saying something is red?  What is red?" 

Drives me insane, frankly.  I come here for some sanity.  Not sure if that is good or
bad...

You poor thing, not finding much of that are you?

[Deleted]

Wife knows I post here.   She is fine with it until she gets mad at me about something and then gets mad at me about posting here as well.       When she reads my posts she says I am mean to her.   I tell her that no one wants to read lovey dovey stuff.

[973beachbum]

Oct 17, 2013 13:18:06 GMT -5 greeniis10 said:

I guess I'm the minority: my DH knows I read a "money board" but I don't tell him I post nor does he know the site.  Nothing to hide.  I have ranted recently about DSD's wedding, but I said all of those things (and worse) to him in real life.  The reason I don't mention it is because I like to have something to myself; someplace where I have some anonimity and privacy.   DH is retired and is home 24/7.  Thankfully I work full time. 

I really enjoy this board and I have learned a LOT over the years and pretty much learn something new every day!  I would like to be able to talk to DH about all the diverse topics here, but lately we've been having communication issues.    Not sure why; maybe he isn't using his brain as much now as he's not working, but here's a standard conversation:
Me: "The sky is blue."
Him: "What?" (standard response to everything I say; yes his hearing is fine; his brain is retired, however)
Me: "I said, the sky is blue."
Him: "So you're saying something is red?  What is red?" 

Drives me insane, frankly.  I come here for some sanity.  Not sure if that is good or
bad...

We're the sane people in your life.

[Miss Tequila]

My husband knows that I post on some board. He doesn't know which board nor would her care enough to stalk me to see what I post. I think he met Meg a few yeas ago (I know my kids did). I have other friends from various message boards that he has met.

I rarely talk about my husband on here and I don't think I ever say anything negative about him on here. I wouldn't care if he came and read my posts.

[Cookies Galore]

Oct 17, 2013 13:18:55 GMT -5 Miss Tequila said:

Oct 17, 2013 9:54:11 GMT -5 Cookies Galore said:

HAH sits right next to me on the couch when I'm posting at night. He'll ask what my message board is talking about or I will bring up a thread that might interest him.

I believe he's met one of my friends from here. I can't remember if there was anyone else.

I met him a fewest years ago!

And I believe you are the only one! You'd think I'd remember dragging my spouse out to meet a total stranger.

[Miss Tequila]

Oct 17, 2013 13:24:29 GMT -5 Cookies Galore said:

Oct 17, 2013 13:18:55 GMT -5 Miss Tequila said:

I met him a fewest years ago!

And I believe you are the only one! You'd think I'd remember dragging my spouse out to meet a total stranger.

I was your first and you don't remember :-(. Lol

[Sum Dum Gai]

Oct 17, 2013 13:15:07 GMT -5 imawino said:

Oct 17, 2013 12:56:52 GMT -5 Sum Dum Gai said:

Not anymore. I changed my name so she can't find me.

Awesome disguise, dude! 

Thanks for reminding me to change my profile pic. Love this image!

[raeoflyte]

Oct 17, 2013 13:18:06 GMT -5 greeniis10 said:

I guess I'm the minority: my DH knows I read a "money board" but I don't tell him I post nor does he know the site.  Nothing to hide.  I have ranted recently about DSD's wedding, but I said all of those things (and worse) to him in real life.  The reason I don't mention it is because I like to have something to myself; someplace where I have some anonimity and privacy.   DH is retired and is home 24/7.  Thankfully I work full time. 

I really enjoy this board and I have learned a LOT over the years and pretty much learn something new every day!  I would like to be able to talk to DH about all the diverse topics here, but lately we've been having communication issues.    Not sure why; maybe he isn't using his brain as much now as he's not working, but here's a standard conversation:
Me: "The sky is blue."
Him: "What?" (standard response to everything I say; yes his hearing is fine; his brain is retired, however)
Me: "I said, the sky is blue."
Him: "So you're saying something is red?  What is red?" 

Drives me insane, frankly.  I come here for some sanity.  Not sure if that is good or
bad...

I swear dh does that too!  

[Cookies Galore]

Oct 17, 2013 13:26:05 GMT -5 Miss Tequila said:

Oct 17, 2013 13:24:29 GMT -5 Cookies Galore said:

And I believe you are the only one! You'd think I'd remember dragging my spouse out to meet a total stranger.

I was your first and you don't remember :-(. Lol

Lol, I said you're the only one! Lay off the caipirhinas! I just couldn't remember if he met anyone else. You're it!

[Sum Dum Gai]

What? I'm sorry were you talking to me? I thought you were just muttering to yourself... kind of like you're doing now... why are you always so tense and angry looking... ow! What the hell was that for? *rubs shoulder*

And women complain about our lack of communication.

[imawino]

Oct 17, 2013 13:29:44 GMT -5 Sum Dum Gai said:

Oct 17, 2013 13:15:07 GMT -5 imawino said:

Awesome disguise, dude! 

Thanks for reminding me to change my profile pic. Love this image!

Eeeeks!  What sis you do to the poor thing?  And what is that pink thing?  Does it have a butterfly tatooed on its ass?

[Sum Dum Gai]

That's her birth mark.  All My Little Ponies have them.  It's a brain actually, but you have to see the full size picture to make it out.

[whoisjohngalt]

Oct 17, 2013 9:42:52 GMT -5 chen35 said:

Would you be comfortable knowing what you post? Has what you posted ever caused an issue between you and your spouse?

I hardly ever post, so it hasn't come up, but I can see DH being annoyed by a few of the things I have posted about our life.

Well, since I constantly bitch about my IL's, I probably wouldn't want him to read it.

However, I am a simple girl - I NEVER say anything behind people's back that I am not willing to say to their faces, so....he knows how I feel, but I don't know if I would want him see it here, in writing.

[Deleted]

Oct 17, 2013 14:17:11 GMT -5 Sum Dum Gai said:

That's her birth mark.  All My Little Ponies have them.  It's a brain actually, but you have to see the full size picture to make it out.

I thought it was a Cutie Mark.

[Sum Dum Gai]

Whatever.  Wait... why in the sam hell do you know that?

[swamp]

Oct 17, 2013 14:28:14 GMT -5 ArchietheDragon said:

Oct 17, 2013 14:17:11 GMT -5 Sum Dum Gai said:

That's her birth mark.  All My Little Ponies have them.  It's a brain actually, but you have to see the full size picture to make it out.

I thought it was a Cutie Mark.

It is a cutie mark.

[Deleted]

Oct 17, 2013 14:34:29 GMT -5 Sum Dum Gai said:

Whatever.  Wait... why in the sam hell do you know that?

My girls are younger than yours....  but I don't own a toy store.

[Sum Dum Gai]

Uh huh... your girls.  I hear you bronie.

[lynnerself]

DH knows I post here. In general, he doesn't "get" message boards, doesn't understand chatting with strangers on the internet.

He also would probably object to amount of detail I post sometimes.

[Happy prose]

My DH doesn't really ask what i do on the internet, but I may have mentioned a money board. I never really post anything personal, but I may have once said I'm glad his mother is dead. 

[cael]

DH knows I post here, but he wouldn't have any idea how to get here unless I told him lol. He doesn't give a crap, he isn't really into the online forums thing... although we have a large group of friends we met ages ago via a costuming forum, so he's totes used to it. He wasn't sketched out at all when I took a detour after a work meeting last spring to meet @chiver! if he wanted to come here I'd give him the address... but he's too ADD to stay and dig through threads to read anything interesting, lol.