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Post by movingforward on May 1, 2013 13:19:19 GMT -5
* Post removed as the post it quoted was removed by the OP. - mmhmm, Administrator
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Post by NancysSummerSip on May 1, 2013 13:19:21 GMT -5
Exactly age 21. It was my birthday. Oh, and I had my first (and only ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/angel2.png) ) experience with marijuana the same night. With the same man. Gawd, what a hottie he was. And y'all are making me feel very old about admitting that.
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Post by midjd on May 1, 2013 13:21:25 GMT -5
Oops! Hopefully my ex isn't a poster here. ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/tongue2.png)
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Post by Bob Ross on May 1, 2013 13:24:01 GMT -5
Fun story, DH and I broke up in 10th grade and a few months later I started dating his childhood best friend. Ah. So you're one of THOSE women. Good to know. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/tongue.png)
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on May 1, 2013 13:24:12 GMT -5
![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/yeahthat.gif) Actually I suggest several test drives before you buy. At least 1 - 2 yrs worth I can't even imagine only having slept with 1 person... I can....unfortunately.
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Post by souldoubt on May 1, 2013 13:24:15 GMT -5
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Post by kittensaver on May 1, 2013 13:25:00 GMT -5
Which is why I always recommend taking it out for a test drive before you buy it. I don't care if this puts me in the "bad mommy" category, but I will discourage my kid(s) from waiting til marriage to be intimate. Physical chemistry is not only a very important part of a relationship, but it also gives you a different perspective of the other person's... um.... generosity and willingness to make the other person happy, so to speak. I agree! We told both of our girls that while we expected them to respect their bodies (and their health and their psyches) and not fling themselves at every man that came along, we also expected that they would go into marriage with a partner they knew well (*wink wink*), because you owe it to yourself to know what you're getting into if our society and culture expects you to be faithful to that person for 40-50-60+ years. And I don't care if that made me a bad guardian - they've both made happy marriages and that's what matters.
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Post by Deleted on May 1, 2013 13:25:56 GMT -5
![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/yeahthat.gif) Actually I suggest several test drives before you buy. At least 1 - 2 yrs worth I can't even imagine only having slept with 1 person... that's me. I have only slept with one person. Yeah, I have thought about what I might be missing, but I can't retroactively go back and sleep with everyone who I wanted to sleep with. So I counter those thoughts with reading adult short stories and letting my mind take over. Whatever, don't judge me! ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/raspberries.png)
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Bob Ross
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Post by Bob Ross on May 1, 2013 13:26:15 GMT -5
![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/yeahthat.gif) Actually I suggest several test drives before you buy. At least 1 - 2 yrs worth I can't even imagine only having slept with 1 person... ...at a time. In a tub of jello with only ONE flavor. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/tongue.png)
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Green Eyed Lady
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Post by Green Eyed Lady on May 1, 2013 13:29:19 GMT -5
I don't think anyone is right or wrong...except I know what's right for me. But I guess I don't understand how pre-marital sex was going to be any better. There is still going to be a "first time" and I would imagine I would have had the same experience. And not being married? I may have decided never to do it again!!
But I do see your points. If we had sex before marriage, I might have realized it wasn't going to get any better and dumped his dumb ass instead of marrying it.
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Post by kittensaver on May 1, 2013 13:29:19 GMT -5
I can't even imagine only having slept with 1 person... that's me. I have only slept with one person. Yeah, I have thought about what I might be missing, but I can't retroactively go back and sleep with everyone who I wanted to sleep with. So I counter those thoughts with reading adult short stories and letting my mind take over. Whatever, don't judge me! ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/raspberries.png) One of the biggest regrets of my life is NOT sleeping with my HS boyfriend. He was a wonderful guy and we were together for almost 4 years. We never did because we were too scared of parents, the Church, etc. Big regret. Okay, I'm going to hell - go ahead and judge me. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/tongue.png)
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Post by Bob Ross on May 1, 2013 13:33:04 GMT -5
I can't even imagine only having slept with 1 person... that's me. I have only slept with one person. Yeah, I have thought about what I might be missing, but I can't retroactively go back and sleep with everyone who I wanted to sleep with. So I counter those thoughts with reading adult short stories and letting my mind take over. Whatever, don't judge me! ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/raspberries.png) What!?! You mean you never ended up doing the hibbidy-dibbidy with that bright-eyed young intern? For shame! (somehow I don't believe you) ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/wink.png)
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Post by NomoreDramaQ1015 on May 1, 2013 13:34:51 GMT -5
I've only slept with DH. I have no regrets about it. Despite people assuring me it'd happen, we've never had issues concerning sex because I didn't "sow my oats" beforehand. We test drove each other plenty before we got married, any issues in that arena would have already been known before we walked down the aisle. It just happened that way. I wasn't all that attracted to my HS sweetheart sexually and none else wanted me or so I thought. If we'd had a condom I might have lost my virginity to someone other than DH, but we were smart enough to put the breaks on before we ended up having unprotected sex. My life might have ended up very different if we hadn't! ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/shocked.gif) Thinks blew up with that guy before we got to that point again. DH entered my life shortly thereafter. I'm not dead though, there are guys if I was single I'd be on like white on rice. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/wink.png)
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Post by movingforward on May 1, 2013 13:38:05 GMT -5
I don't think anyone is right or wrong...except I know what's right for me. But I guess I don't understand how pre-marital sex was going to be any better. There is still going to be a "first time" and I would imagine I would have had the same experience. And not being married? I may have decided never to do it again!!
But I do see your points. If we had sex before marriage, I might have realized it wasn't going to get any better and dumped his dumb ass instead of marrying it. Sex usually gets much better after you do a few times so yes once you realized it wasn't going to get better you could have easily gotten out of the relationship had you not been married. I have a friend who went through this. She didn't have sex until after she was married and it pretty much sucked. They were only married for 11 months.
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Post by Deleted on May 1, 2013 13:38:34 GMT -5
that's me. I have only slept with one person. Yeah, I have thought about what I might be missing, but I can't retroactively go back and sleep with everyone who I wanted to sleep with. So I counter those thoughts with reading adult short stories and letting my mind take over. Whatever, don't judge me! ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/raspberries.png) What!?! You mean you never ended up doing the hibbidy-dibbidy with that bright-eyed young intern? For shame! (somehow I don't believe you) ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/wink.png) no - we both decided that we didn't want our professional AND personal lives shot to shit, so we don't do lunch anymore and we don't text unless it is something important and work-related. Sucks because I had to lose a friend in the process, but I guess that's part of being an adult. And he isn't an intern. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/tongue.png)
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Post by Deleted on May 1, 2013 13:38:59 GMT -5
Freshman year of college 17/18? I think.
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Post by movingforward on May 1, 2013 13:41:11 GMT -5
I can't even imagine only having slept with 1 person... that's me. I have only slept with one person. Yeah, I have thought about what I might be missing, but I can't retroactively go back and sleep with everyone who I wanted to sleep with. So I counter those thoughts with reading adult short stories and letting my mind take over. Whatever, don't judge me! ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/raspberries.png) I think it is okay to have only slept with one person if that's the way things worked out. As long as you test drove the merchandise several times beforehand and had no complaints then so be it.
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Post by sheilaincali on May 1, 2013 13:41:51 GMT -5
I was 16.
I almost always had long relationships. A few only last 3 or 4 months but for the most part the relationships all lasted a year or longer.
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Post by Peace Of Mind on May 1, 2013 13:43:01 GMT -5
LOL at the title of How old were you when you lost your virginity and then seeing the name Almost40 as the last poster. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/grin.png)
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Post by movingforward on May 1, 2013 13:44:59 GMT -5
LOL at the title of How old were you when you lost your virginity and then seeing the name Almost40 as the last poster. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/grin.png) ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/rofl.gif) No 40 yr old virgin here I can assure you
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on May 1, 2013 13:46:21 GMT -5
I was in my mid 20s. I was kinda shy/nerdy until then.
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Post by Deleted on May 1, 2013 13:47:01 GMT -5
that's me. I have only slept with one person. Yeah, I have thought about what I might be missing, but I can't retroactively go back and sleep with everyone who I wanted to sleep with. So I counter those thoughts with reading adult short stories and letting my mind take over. Whatever, don't judge me! ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/raspberries.png) I think it is okay to have only slept with one person if that's the way things worked out. As long as you test drove the merchandise several times beforehand and had no complaints then so be it. we test drove for about 6 years, so yeah. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/smiley.png)
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Post by NoNamePerson on May 1, 2013 13:48:26 GMT -5
I was 17. And I know this sounds like a lie but it was in the back of a 57 Chevy. One of the few guys I knew with a car ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/angel.gif) Everybody didn't own a car back in the dark ages!!!!
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Post by Phoenix84 on May 1, 2013 13:51:41 GMT -5
Never happened.
For whatever reason I seem to have totally missed the boat on relationships with the opposite sex. *sighs*
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Post by kittensaver on May 1, 2013 13:55:46 GMT -5
Never happened.
For whatever reason I seem to have totally missed the boat on relationships with the opposite sex. *sighs* What happened with the hairdresser?
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Post by Deleted on May 1, 2013 14:00:45 GMT -5
I'm about to start a "Get Phoenix a Round-Trip Ticket to Vegas" fund.
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Post by taz157 on May 1, 2013 14:01:06 GMT -5
19. With the person who ended up becoming my husband. Didn't plan it that way, just happened. ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/idunno.gif) If we're counting oral sex, 17.
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Post by Deleted on May 1, 2013 14:01:31 GMT -5
Never happened.
For whatever reason I seem to have totally missed the boat on relationships with the opposite sex. *sighs* What happened with the hairdresser? That was a dude!
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Post by movingforward on May 1, 2013 14:02:39 GMT -5
archie - ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/rofl.gif)
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Post by Chocolate Lover on May 1, 2013 14:03:01 GMT -5
16. 2nd time was much better than the 1st. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/wink.png)
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