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Post by wvugurl26 on Apr 29, 2013 9:54:21 GMT -5
I have met a few pretty entitled hot chicks. One was really really hot so it made sense. When you've had people tripping over themselves to give you shit and do things for you your entire life because you're that good looking I guess it skews your view of reality. I could see her making a horrible wife. I mean, parading around in front of your friends with her on your arm would be cool, but I wouldn't want to live with her. She's too good to clean, cook, get a job, make money, and god knows what else. Those women are out there. Some guys seem able to find them everywhere though. I've always wondered what kind of clubs they frequent or whatever. I'd say entitled hot chicks make up maybe 5% of the female population, if that. How some guys manage to meet and date nothing but them... it should be statistically impossible. It's mind boggling really. I think some of those clubs look for girls like that. When we were in Vegas at one club, the manager kept asking us to come sit in the VIP section. We killed a few minutes there until the boys showed up.
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Post by wvugurl26 on Apr 29, 2013 10:19:12 GMT -5
I think some of those clubs look for girls like that. When we were in Vegas at one club, the manager kept asking us to come sit in the VIP section. We killed a few minutes there until the boys showed up. They wanted hotties to go into the VIP section so dudes would also go in there and start spending lots of $$$ I bet... It was a total sausage fest in there. Guys were already in there and had ordered bottle service. Vegas itself was a total sausage fest that week between the huge gun show and the big concrete show.
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on Apr 29, 2013 10:21:21 GMT -5
So we have proof of wvu's hottiness quotient?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2013 10:22:37 GMT -5
Well, we have her word on it! ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/grin.png)
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Post by HoneyBBQ on Apr 29, 2013 10:27:17 GMT -5
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Post by thyme4change on Apr 29, 2013 10:55:58 GMT -5
I watched a You Tube video called "How to fool people into thinking you are good looking." It was pretty funny. But whenever I turn on CNN, I see these contrasting pictures and I think that there are definitely things you can do to increase your hotness. ![](http://www.occupyhln.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/jodi20.jpg)
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2013 11:25:53 GMT -5
the idea that all beautiful women are high maintenance is crazy
the same as the idea that ugly chicks make better wives
the packaging is varied....short, tall, thin, heavy, redhead, blonde, smart, average, nerdish, freckled, etc, etc, etc
and there is a perfect match for nearly everyone...of that i am convinced
finding that person is the key.....someone with the same goals in life
i have mine...took two tries but got it right this time around
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Post by Phoenix84 on Apr 29, 2013 14:25:50 GMT -5
Well, it's kind of hard for me to comment because I honestly haven't had a great deal of experience with serious relationships, and I have never been married.
But just from meeting folks, I'd say that personality and looks are often independent, though I do think being extremely good looking may lead to a slightly higher sense of entitlement. But I don't think it's that many, as Dark said maybe 5% or less. So in other words, I think the spoiled princesses might be a bit higher among the really beautiful women, but it's not that much of a difference.
I've meet plenty of ugly people with bad personalities too, I don't think there's really enough of a difference to make a definitive assessment. How someone was raised likely has more to do with thier personality and "down to earth-ness" than how they look.
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Post by thyme4change on Apr 29, 2013 14:31:29 GMT -5
Not me. Well, at least, not that I know of. I don't like talking to ugly people. It bums me out. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/tongue.png)
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Post by Miss Tequila on Apr 29, 2013 18:45:06 GMT -5
Well, it's kind of hard for me to comment because I honestly haven't had a great deal of experience with serious relationships, and I have never been married. But just from meeting folks, I'd say that personality and looks are often independent, though I do think being extremely good looking may lead to a slightly higher sense of entitlement. But I don't think it's that many, as Dark said maybe 5% or less. So in other words, I think the spoiled princesses might be a bit higher among the really beautiful women, but it's not that much of a difference. I've meet plenty of ugly people with bad personalities too, I don't think there's really enough of a difference to make a definitive assessment. How someone was raised likely has more to do with thier personality and "down to earth-ness" than how they look. I don't know. I have had a few gorgeous girlfriends that had very low self-esteem and put up with being treated like shit. I never could tell if they didn't realize how gorgeous they were or if they were just plan old fucked up. Counter that with the not-so-hot chicks with misplaced egos. I swear, some women must not own mirrors
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 30, 2013 6:56:36 GMT -5
I think I go along with some of this just based on my personal experience. My mom was gorgeous and got everything she wanted from a very young age. This led to a sense of entitlement way before the rest of the world caught up. She was certainly a lousy mother and I'm thinking not that great of a wife but my dad was a one woman man so he stayed. She was what my aunt calls a "mans woman." She liked men and they liked her but women hated her guts and with good reason. She made sure until I got out from under her thumb that I was dressed unattractively and looked as bad as she could manage. When I went to college, other girls helped me dress and cut my hair and I just blossomed. She hated that and her absolute hatred of me never ended really. The happiest time of her life was when I got divorced and was struggling to raise the kids on my own. I always though Christie Brinkley was hot but she can't keep a man so there's some issue. I think they don't develop a sense of who they really are because they just have to be pretty and they get it all.
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Post by gs11rmb on Apr 30, 2013 8:58:42 GMT -5
Zibazinski - that's incredibly sad. I can't imagine hating my daughters or deliberately trying to make them feel bad. I hope you made your peace with her and your childhood - not for her sake but for your own.
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 30, 2013 10:33:31 GMT -5
She's dead. I settled most of what I had to say to her before she died. Of course she had a different spin on it but I wouldn't let her talk at all. I just kept saying I NEEDED TO BE HEARD. I'm okay with it. I mourn that we had no relationship but that's the way she wanted it. Can't make someone love you.
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Post by Phoenix84 on Apr 30, 2013 13:58:22 GMT -5
I find it odd how women obsess about beauty, not just in themselves but in other women.
I thought the common wisdom was beauty shouldn't define you as a person and is only skin deep ect.
Maybe I'm just sensative to this just because I saw some really strange dove commercial where they had this sketch artist draw different women and with emotional music and then the women look at their poirtrates and they admit "yes, I'm beauty" and one women says "beauty is everything" or something like that.
Just seemed really weird and I always tried to think there was more to most people than how they look, but I guess looks are everything.
I don't go around judging people's appearance, men or women, too much unless they look really bad and it's blindingly obvious or they dress really inappropriate for the situation.
I guess the observation is that for many women, their worth in their own eyes and the eyes of others seem to be on their looks. Miss T's comment about "some women must not own mirrors" implies that a women's value is based soely on her looks. There seems to be this expectation that beautiful women are supposed to act and be a certain way, be confident ect, and more homely women are supposed to act a different way. Either way, why is a women's value based largely on her looks? Shouldn't we have moved past this?
Don't get me wrong, I appreceaite good looking people as much as anyone else, but I don't usually go around equating someone's worth as a human being with their looks, or think that only beautiful people are the one's who deserve to be confident.
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Post by thyme4change on Apr 30, 2013 14:10:43 GMT -5
That is just something that ugly people say.
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 30, 2013 14:15:07 GMT -5
That's nice in theory but in reality women are judged by their looks, big time. Even so-called unattractively women and men can do a lot to make themselves appear better looking than they are. In a society obsessed with youth and beauty the way ours is, it amazes me how some women and men will leave the house. Looking like they slept in their clothes for three days. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/sad.png) Has anyone ever really looked at the duchess of windsors face? The one a king gave up a throne for ? I can't even imagine it but her clothes and appearance were flawless, as much as she was able to come up with. She didn't always have big bucks either but one day she looked in the mirror, saw what she saw, and thought she could do the best she could with what she had been given, and she did.
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Apr 30, 2013 14:40:15 GMT -5
Because some of us don't give a shit what the rest of you think. I'm already married, so I don't need to find a warm place to stick it. I'm not looking for a job, I couldn't care less whether the people that see me think they're better than me, and I don't need the mental masturbation of walking around comparing myself against everyone I meet to stroke my own ego or feed my insecurities.
"But.... but... Dark," I can hear you saying, "You could look so much better with a little effort." Whoop de fucking doo. What's the point of looking better? To land some prince? I'm already married. Is it a self respect thing? I have plenty of respect for myself, enough not to base my self worth on something as pointlessly stupid as the clothes I wear. Really, what's the point of looking good in your everyday life after you're already married?
Note, that I make an exception for at work. Especially if you're interacting with clients. Outside that 40 hours a week though, why do I have to look my best?
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Post by Miss Tequila on Apr 30, 2013 16:50:48 GMT -5
Because some of us don't give a shit what the rest of you think. I'm already married, so I don't need to find a warm place to stick it. I'm not looking for a job, I couldn't care less whether the people that see me think they're better than me, and I don't need the mental masturbation of walking around comparing myself against everyone I meet to stroke my own ego or feed my insecurities. "But.... but... Dark," I can hear you saying, "You could look so much better with a little effort." Whoop de fucking doo. What's the point of looking better? To land some prince? I'm already married. I KNEW Loop was a cover ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/tongue.png)
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 30, 2013 17:15:53 GMT -5
Yup, well, I'm glad I don't leave the house looking like a bag lady.
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Apr 30, 2013 17:57:37 GMT -5
LOL at Dark looking for a prince. I'm not surprised but it made me laugh to actually read him admit to it. ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/tongue2.png) DH and I are also married and have been for years. We have self respect and like to be clean and look nice most of the time. That doesn't mean we are looking outside of the marriage. It just means we are shallow. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/grin.png) It means we don't like looking like the homeless or that we don't like to smell. I wish more people were like us. Have you been in line or around people in the heat that don't have good hygiene? It's disgusting! ![](http://syonidv.hodginsmedia.com/vsmileys/sick.png) A little soap and water and a brush or comb can do wonders. Your hair sticking straight up in it's grease, having crap in your teeth or having b.o. just makes you unappealing. If you're ugly - that is ok. I understand you not wanting to try any harder to not be ugly because, well, you are ugly, but presentable is a whole 'nother matter. Zib - Your mom could put you in a paper sack and you'd still be beautiful! Did you get your skin from her? Your looks? Try to be thankful for the things she gave you genetically for your own sake and let the rest go. Those were her issues. They should not be yours. ![](http://i239.photobucket.com/albums/ff155/JiminiChristmas/smileys/hug.gif) Oh. And can I have your skin and your hands? You have the hands of a 19 year old who has beautiful hands. Thank you in advance. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/kiss.gif)
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Post by zibazinski on Apr 30, 2013 18:16:31 GMT -5
I did inherit her skin. Genetically, my Irish-scot side does very well helping me look younger than I am. My mom easily passed for a woman in her fifties. It was her weight that gave her away. Because I'm a sun worshipped, I look older than she did and she was almost 21 years older than me. Sun really does make a difference. My aunts have creamy skin, no sun exposure ever. They'd burn to a crisp! My grandma passed for my mom all the time.
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Apr 30, 2013 22:56:26 GMT -5
Hygiene is completely different. There's no reason to cruise around smelling like a homeless person. I'm just talking clothes, since somebody mentioned leaving the house in clothes that look slept in. I'm not a huge fan of shaving either so I sport 5 to 7 day stubble pretty often. Anything beyond that starts to itch enough to overcome my laziness.
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Post by zibazinski on May 1, 2013 6:16:15 GMT -5
I think it's great that you have someone who is okay with all that. Perfectly matched. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/smiley.png) The stubble look seems to be in anyway. It just reminded me of when DF and I were accosted by his ex while we were waiting in a huge line for ice cream. She had to find us in a crowd of people and then say something to us about having the nerve to show our faces in public. I had no clue who she was and thought she was some crazy homeless person. DF had to admit she was his ex. I felt so sorry for him and for her. She looked awful. If I actually thought she was a homeless person, you know she was having a bad day. Before I made a public spectacle out of myself with my ex, I'd make sure I looked HOT! When my ex and I have our DD a grad party, even though his latest "lady" was there and was younger than DD, I still looked better than she did because I dressed and acted nicely. She looked and acted like a skank. That helped me get through it. ![](http://images.proboards.com/new/wink.png)
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