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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 12:00:16 GMT -5
I am officially divorced  |
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Post by thyme4change on Dec 12, 2012 12:01:10 GMT -5
Woo Hoo!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 12:02:09 GMT -5
WOO HOOOOO!!!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D  |
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Post by taz157 on Dec 12, 2012 12:06:29 GMT -5
Message deleted by HoHoHotaz157. Removed the 2nd posting of it. Stupid Angry Bear.  |
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Post by Sam_2.0 on Dec 12, 2012 12:06:40 GMT -5
YAY! Isn't freedom day wonderful?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 12:06:52 GMT -5
"Oh! I thought you meant your world was destroyed." On the contrary, my life is beginning!  |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 12:07:14 GMT -5
"Oh! I thought you meant your world was destroyed." On the contrary, my life is beginning! |
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Post by Angel! on Dec 12, 2012 12:11:13 GMT -5
Congrats!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 12:15:50 GMT -5
Oh the only conversation we had was him asking how the company (where I work and he is furloughed from) is doing. He didn't ask about our (MY) son.
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Post by Formerly SK on Dec 12, 2012 12:25:38 GMT -5
My divorce from XH was the greatest day of my life at that point (I was only 25). I started bawling in the courtroom and walked out of the courthouse just sobbing in happiness. It was such a relief to finally have it all over. I still crack a smile thinking about it.
For about a decade afterwards, my pin on pretty much everything was 3733 (FREE). It was fabulous to finally be free!
Congrats!!!
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Post by muttleynfelix on Dec 12, 2012 12:26:54 GMT -5
YEAH!!! Congrats to you!!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 12:27:50 GMT -5
"Oh! I thought you meant your world was destroyed." On the contrary, my life is beginning! Congratulations! And you have a great attitude about it too!!! |
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Post by swamp on Dec 12, 2012 12:34:03 GMT -5
Yay!!!!
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Post by Colleenz on Dec 12, 2012 12:35:28 GMT -5
I love this thread. After I got divorced and most people would find out and say "I'm sorry". I would reply I'm not.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 12:37:27 GMT -5
Congrats.
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Post by Jaguar on Dec 12, 2012 12:54:02 GMT -5
That's fabulous and congrats on your new freedom.  |
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Post by cronewitch on Dec 12, 2012 13:05:27 GMT -5
My date was 4/18/84 and I am not sorry.
The actual divorce day was a work day so I didn't go to the court. I called my attorney after work to ask if it was final then went to work out.
For some reason I was sad, felt I had failed at marriage. I was sad again 4 months later while on vacation with a boyfriend in a forest by a beautiful river. I had been pretty busy working, working out and dating but laying in the shade in the woods with nothing to do it caught me by surprise.
Divorce is the best thing I could have done yet still a little sad.
Don't worry if you become sad you will get over it.
As my brother keeps telling my other brother remember the mayonnaise theory. If you take mayo out of the refrigerator and it is bad you don't put it back and try it again later. My brother married the same woman twice two different times, slow learner.
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Post by wvugurl26 on Dec 12, 2012 13:07:11 GMT -5
Congratulations!! You'll be much better going forward without dead weight.
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Post by singlemomky on Dec 12, 2012 13:50:33 GMT -5
He didn't ask about our (MY) son.  BTDT - Recently went to court for CS modification and the only thing my son's father could say to me was "you're really ok w/that number"? He has not seen or talked to son in 4 1/2 years. I would love to tell you it gets better but in most circumstances this is your Ex's true colors coming out. Congratulations on the freedom! |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 13:57:44 GMT -5
I love this thread. After I got divorced and most people would find out and say "I'm sorry". I would reply I'm not. Needing a divorce is sad, but getting through the nightmare process is definitely cause for celebration. Happy Divorciversary, bunnysmom! |
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Post by Iggy aka IG on Dec 12, 2012 14:45:17 GMT -5
I am officially divorced Congratulations! BTDT, and, while there are no fireworks, it still is something to be relieved about.  |
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Post by weltschmerz on Dec 12, 2012 15:03:33 GMT -5
Congratulations on being able to soar on your own wings! Are you taking your name back?
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Post by kittensaver on Dec 12, 2012 15:21:21 GMT -5
Congrats on your new life, bunnysmom. Things can only get better from here! |
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Dec 12, 2012 16:08:06 GMT -5
Congrats!!!!!! I know the feeling, it's wonderful. ;D
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Dec 12, 2012 16:13:41 GMT -5
Yay Bunnysmom!!!  Taz, LOL!!! You must really be happy for her because you said it 3 times! ;D |
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Post by tloonya on Dec 12, 2012 16:29:49 GMT -5
I am officially divorced Great! NOW you can get married!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2012 16:38:09 GMT -5
Congrats Bunnysmom!
Did your ex relinquish all his parental rights as planned?
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Post by InsertCoolName on Dec 12, 2012 16:56:51 GMT -5
I've been divorced 2 times. I wasn't sad either time! I was embarrassed the first time. Way too young! And I was finally free and safe the 2nd time.
Congrats to you and your son. It will be a much happier and healthier life now, with the x completely gone. He is the one who signed off on visits and support, right? If not, then I am sorry for confusing you with someone else.
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