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Post by Sam_2.0 on Nov 28, 2012 22:28:56 GMT -5
TRIGGER - skip if you are sensitive to infant losses.........
One of my friends from HS lost twins last year at 15 weeks. She's pregnant again and due to deliver in 5 days (scheduled c-section). She had her last Dr appt today and found out the baby had passed away. My heart just aches for her. She just lost her mom 2 months ago. I was just talking with some other friends tonight about how excited we were for her and how we couldn't wait to see if she was having a boy or a girl. They were keeping it a surprise, but announced tonight it was a girl named after her mother. I can't stop crying and I feel like someone kicked me in the stomach. I can't even begin to fathom what she's going through.
To top it off, my brother is on a business trip & got rushed to the ER and now is in emergency surgery to take out his appendix. I know he's going to be fine but I am still worried.
I just want to curl up and cry the night away. Last week was DH's co-worker that was only 23. This week its my friend's baby. Dear God, please don't let this come in 3's.
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Post by Jaguar on Nov 28, 2012 22:34:05 GMT -5
My heart goes out, I'm so very sorry.   |
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Post by mollyanna58 on Nov 28, 2012 22:36:05 GMT -5
That is heartbreaking. That poor couple; I can't imagine what they are going through. |
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Post by mmhmm on Nov 28, 2012 22:41:00 GMT -5
I'm so sorry, sweetie. Sorry for the couple who've lost their baby, sorry about her mom, and sorry about your brother. Brother will be fine, as you say, and won't even have much of a scar to show off. Sometimes, all we can do is cry it out. It just plain hurts.  |
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Post by skubikky on Nov 29, 2012 7:46:09 GMT -5
Oh Sam, so sorry. Hang in there kiddo.
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on Nov 29, 2012 8:13:33 GMT -5
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Post by taz157 on Nov 29, 2012 8:14:09 GMT -5
I'm sorry sam. Sending prayers to friend and her family along to your brother for a speedy recovery.   |
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Post by Opti on Nov 29, 2012 8:17:14 GMT -5
I'm sorry sam. Sending prayers to friend and her family along to your brother for a speedy recovery.  I hope the HS friend comes out of this with her hope intact. |
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Post by Jake 48 on Nov 29, 2012 8:29:23 GMT -5
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Post by chiver78 on Nov 29, 2012 9:11:06 GMT -5
 I'm so sorry, sam. I'm going to say that the 3rd in this awful week you're having is my sister's MIL who passed away Sunday night. none of us need any more grief  |
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Post by Sam_2.0 on Nov 29, 2012 10:20:55 GMT -5
Thanks, everyone. DB made it through just fine. The guys he's working with will finish the job without him, and then bring him home once he can leave the hospital. I wouldn't want to take that 12hr car trip just after surgery though!
Praying for safety for my friend as she delivers today. I pray they are able to spend time with their daughter and I am glad for NILMDS and the fact that they will get pictures to help with their memories. But the hardest part I am sure will be giving her back knowing they won't ever hold her again.
Chiver - so sorry to hear about your sister's MIL.
I need to find Murphy & whoop his arse.
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Post by redwagon on Nov 29, 2012 10:48:01 GMT -5
Sam I'm so sorry for your friend. I can't even begin to imagine. Going to hug my babies right now... Glad your brother is okay!
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Post by muttleynfelix on Nov 29, 2012 12:31:15 GMT -5
Hugs.
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Post by kgb18 on Nov 29, 2012 17:14:24 GMT -5
Oh sam. I'm so sorry to hear that. That is just heartbreaking.  |
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Post by Sam_2.0 on Aug 20, 2013 0:19:37 GMT -5
Who knew the third would be us This friend has been so kind and supportive since we first had found out about Aubree. I just hate that we have this in common now |
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Post by Jaguar on Aug 20, 2013 0:52:42 GMT -5
Sam I'm really sorry hon.
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Post by skubikky on Aug 20, 2013 6:39:55 GMT -5
Read your blog... my heart goes out to you and your family. You're being thought of by many people out here.... |
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Post by raeoflyte on Aug 20, 2013 7:04:41 GMT -5
Hugs Sam...
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2013 7:14:12 GMT -5
I hate that you have it in common as well, Sam.  |
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Post by Wisconsin Beth on Aug 20, 2013 7:37:50 GMT -5
I'm so sorry, sweetie. Sorry for the couple who've lost their baby, sorry about her mom, and sorry about your brother. Brother will be fine, as you say, and won't even have much of a scar to show off. Sometimes, all we can do is cry it out. It just plain hurts. Sam, curl up and have a good long cry. You've been so strong for so long, it's ok to break down. |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2013 7:40:34 GMT -5
 I am in awe of your inner strength, Sam.
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Post by MarleyKeezy78 on Aug 20, 2013 7:41:26 GMT -5
Sorry to hear all this is going on, you are in my thoughts 
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Post by sheilaincali on Aug 20, 2013 8:21:48 GMT -5
Words can not express how deeply sorry I am for your loss.
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Post by twinmama85 on Aug 20, 2013 15:00:53 GMT -5
I'm sorry for all that is going on in your life right now. It is sad that you guys have that in common, the pain from the loss of a child is something I cannot begin to image; however, there is an understanding that you guys have that only people who've been in your situation will ever understand and you will be able to cope and move towards healing with one another. Keep praying and never lose your faith.
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Post by InsertCoolName on Aug 20, 2013 21:22:47 GMT -5
I am so sorry Sam.
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Post by greeniis10 on Aug 22, 2013 13:24:43 GMT -5
Oh, I'm SO sorry! You don't need anymore sadness than you already have.
Glad your brother is ok! And remember your constant ray of sunshine: Aly is your bright spot and will continue to be.
Cry if/when you need to but also find the good and brightness in every day.
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