Miss Tequila
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Post by Miss Tequila on Aug 7, 2012 16:21:15 GMT -5
"So did you sleep with the guy yet?" Who has an affair by napping with a co-worker??? <beings to realize she really IS surrounded by nerds>>
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imawino
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Post by imawino on Aug 7, 2012 16:25:30 GMT -5
and while she's relatively good looking, she has a real ho-bag personality that always gave me the heebie jeebies. You could be talking about me right now. Bob Ross is here! Yay!
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Apple
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Always travel with a sense of humor
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Post by Apple on Aug 7, 2012 21:40:49 GMT -5
It can work to be friends if you're very careful. I work with all guys. Two of them are incredibly attractive, great personalities, funny as hell and 100% what I'm looking for in a man. Today I had to have each of them look at something in *very* close quarters (about a foot of room behind some equipment, then we both had to squeeze in the corner so I could point everything out. Hot damn, my body was responding to it (have I mentioned I'm extremely attracted to them? ) Other times I've had to work where one of us is nearly straddling the other (I have actually had to straddle/been straddled by some of the other guys to get a job done--just this morning I had to kneel down and have my head moving around near a guy's package while I put in some bolts while he held up the panel, you learn to get used to it). Both guys are married. We've had discussions on pretty much every topic, and both have told me my ex-bf was a dumbfuck for "letting me go", they can't believe I don't have a bf, and I'm going to break a guy when I finally DO get a bf. The attraction (on both sides) is danced around but never stated, and neither one has ever made any move on me at all. Sometimes my body temp shoots up when I am around them, and I know they can't concentrate as well either, BUT, nothing is going to happen, it's an unspoken understanding. Honestly, if either one were single I'd break my no-dating-coworkers rule in a second. As it is, I just really enjoy their friendship and deal with the physical frustration.
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Knee Deep in Water Chloe
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Post by Knee Deep in Water Chloe on Aug 8, 2012 0:11:54 GMT -5
I agree with Drama. You two were never friends. You are colleagues. You had a slip of a moment. You didn't do anything wrong, but run don't walk, don't pass go, don't collect $200, and get back to the colleague zone, and put a neck brace on while you're in the same room with him.
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zibazinski
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Post by zibazinski on Aug 8, 2012 7:25:17 GMT -5
Is okay to fantasize and even talk about it lightly. Like another poster said, you aren't dead. Shoot, I point out cute girls for DF when I see them. If attraction wasn't there for other people, only for one person, we'd mate for life. Since we don't most often, we are attracted to ther people. Key is to NOT act upon it which you haven't. It's all good.
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tloonya
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What status?
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Post by tloonya on Aug 8, 2012 11:07:16 GMT -5
Loony, don't you have some checks to bounce? Was that the answer to my question is you re horny and he is not into you? and you just think he is because well....you are horny?
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