Chocolate Lover
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Post by Chocolate Lover on Jan 20, 2011 13:02:38 GMT -5
Or cut into little pieces and stuffed in the new garbage can. Strange how I thought of this on another thread and can use it here. #lipsrsealed# <<backs away slowly>> I just wanted to ask if this therapist could write prescriptions, some folks here need them.....
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Sum Dum Gai
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Jan 20, 2011 14:39:53 GMT -5
<<Dark walks in and lays on the couch>>
So, here's the thing doc... You don't mind if I call you doc right? I don't mean to be impersonal, but when you have three different regular shrinks plus the occasional visit with a court mandated one it's just easier than trying to keep names straight. Where was I? Oh, so here's the thing; I really do truly support my wife in her endeavors or at least I think I do. I want to. Maybe that's it, I really truly do want to support my wife in her endeavor's. However, lately those endeavor's have been taking up a lot more of her time than she really planned on. That time comes directly off of our family time, her time to shop, cook, clean, etc.
I should probably mention at this point that I'm not a sexist pig. I'm really not. if she wants to work full time like I do that's totally cool with me. The stuff she's doing now wasn't supposed to be full time though. That wasn't the deal. She also turned down my offer of finding a cleaning lady to come by once in a while to help out. She wants to do the whole stay at home super mom thing but she also wants to do the pod cast and the political thing which I think is too much right now. She just won her election for her seat like four days ago and it's taken up a good solid 20 hours by itself. The pod cast easily takes 10 hours a week. She's still somewhat toying with the idea of starting a business with one of her friends. It's just all too much at the same time.
I miss having home cooked food. I miss coming home to a clean house. She doesn't want to accept help. She doesn't want to give up anything. I really don't know what to do at this point. I don't want to resent her getting active outside the house. I really really don't. I'm proud of her for how well she's doing with the projects she's chosen, (her pod cost is being nominated for a Hugo Award!!!) but our home situation is frustrating right now. It's making me feel like a douche for resenting her activities. Our sex life has gone to hell. Gah...
Fuck it, I'm hiring a house keeper whether she likes it or not.
Thanks doc, you've been a big help!
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KaraBoo
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Post by KaraBoo on Jan 20, 2011 14:42:13 GMT -5
Dark: Just repeat to Loopy: It's easier to beg for your forgiveness than ask for your permission.
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Post by lisabelle on Jan 20, 2011 15:06:06 GMT -5
OK just got back from lunch.....not gonna be much help here. You all have to help yourselves....<<<Lisa lays on couch and takes a nap>>>>
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Post by efco on Jan 20, 2011 15:07:18 GMT -5
rub my back?
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Post by lisabelle on Jan 20, 2011 15:09:06 GMT -5
Dude u rub mine. And bring me another margarita and smoke
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Post by efco on Jan 20, 2011 15:11:28 GMT -5
for some karma, I will
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Post by lisabelle on Jan 20, 2011 15:14:30 GMT -5
Sorry S just gave mine to EFCO
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Post by efco on Jan 20, 2011 15:15:19 GMT -5
*rub, rub, rub* howzat?
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Post by lisabelle on Jan 20, 2011 15:16:07 GMT -5
Puuuuurrrrrfect. thank you sunshine.
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Post by efco on Jan 20, 2011 15:18:29 GMT -5
karma for you. TY for the sexy flirting
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Loopdilou
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Post by Loopdilou on Jan 20, 2011 18:59:21 GMT -5
Damnit, I knew I gave him too much sex last week.. now he expects it ALL THE TIME!!!
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Peace Of Mind
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[font color="#8f2520"]~ Drinks Well With Others ~[/font]
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Jan 20, 2011 19:10:12 GMT -5
OK just got back from lunch.....not gonna be much help here. You all have to help yourselves....<<<Lisa lays on couch and takes a nap>>>> Seriously LMAO at this!!!
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Peace Of Mind
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Post by Peace Of Mind on Jan 20, 2011 19:11:00 GMT -5
I am not giving any till I get some. Snerdley I have to wait for powers, but I'll do you next.
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Sum Dum Gai
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Jan 20, 2011 19:12:13 GMT -5
All the time? It's been like a week woman. If I wanted to live with a vow of celibacy I'd be a priest.
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The J
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Post by The J on Jan 20, 2011 20:04:01 GMT -5
Dark, a little hint... smacking Loopy on the butt as you pass by or saying "do you want to get naked" is NOT romantic and does NOT get us in the mood! It works with Angel..... err.....so I've heard
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imawino
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Post by imawino on Jan 20, 2011 20:32:00 GMT -5
::Me, Bis, MM, and Tequila are low carbing, and yes, children are low carb. And we have discussed on YM how to properly eat kids. I think we decided deep fried with hot wing sauce dipped in blue cheese.::
With all of us low-carbing, it's truly a wonder we haven't killed someone and eaten them yet. Bis refuses to give up her wine!!! You can't make me!! I don't care if it has carbs!!!
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Artemis Windsong
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Post by Artemis Windsong on Jan 20, 2011 20:35:09 GMT -5
My drama is over on How do you know he/she is cheating.
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Sum Dum Gai
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Post by Sum Dum Gai on Jan 20, 2011 20:39:40 GMT -5
Dark, a little hint... smacking Loopy on the butt as you pass by or saying "do you want to get naked" is NOT romantic and does NOT get us in the mood! I know, I've been pulling out all the stops. I got her drunk last night. I wore my Flash underoos the night before (not that she even noticed). I've tried whining. I've tried begging. She's just being needlessly difficult about this.
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Loopdilou
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Post by Loopdilou on Jan 20, 2011 21:08:46 GMT -5
Dark, a little hint... smacking Loopy on the butt as you pass by or saying "do you want to get naked" is NOT romantic and does NOT get us in the mood! I know, I've been pulling out all the stops. I got her drunk last night. I wore my Flash underoos the night before (not that she even noticed). I've tried whining. I've tried begging. She's just being needlessly difficult about this. *sigh* Suddenly I feel sorry for myself.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 21:38:32 GMT -5
But, I really want to know, why does a bank have a drive-thru but a convenience store doesn't? I GOTTA KNOW! We have drive through beer/liquor stores.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2011 22:06:19 GMT -5
Dark, a little hint... smacking Loopy on the butt as you pass by or saying "do you want to get naked" is NOT romantic and does NOT get us in the mood! It works with Angel..... err.....so I've heard Only because my hormones have currently gone completely crazy!!!! I can't help it!!!! Every once in awhile I do play hard to get and make my DH wine and dine me.
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