several questionable thread questions...

[Deleted]

I'm really just wondering why Deb has been asking the questions she's been asking lately... First "how do you know s/he is the one", then "what's a relationship deal-breaker" and today "cheating clues"... (may not be the EXACT titles)

Not trying to feed the troll, but if she really is doing all this as "research" it just raises some questions. If she is gathering research for an article (or something) then is this the appropriate place for that and should we not be forewarned that answers (rather anonymous or not) could be used as fodder? Or are these just fishing expeditions?

[Deleted]

It is all just very very weird.

[verrip1]

If that's true, we should all start threads about deb.

That'll show her!

[rick]

I think she is gathering stalking info

[verrip1]

Alice!

[Sammy]

Deb has been around for years and banned for as many. Deb was given many chances to adjust her posting style, but chose to ignore all efforts to help her avoid being banned. Bans were handed out and she spent long stretches of time away from the board. Often she would try to get back on by cloning, but was eventually discovered every time, or just about considering her repertoire of names.

The MSN Money manager asked mods to be patient and 'work' wth problem posters. After one particularly disgusting flurry of photos of dead people Deb posted I approached MSN and asked for a perm ban and was given permission. Deb was one of a few posters who were banned on sight. This didn't stop Deb and she would find her way back to the boards, but it was always short lived because her persona always shone through and the new passport would be banned. This is where the Whack-A-Mole quip you would read from the mods came from . Deb would pop up and Deb would be popped back off the boards.

There are several pain in the neck trolls who are taking advantage of this forum. If they were wise they would appreciate the boards and respect the community. Up to them to take the high road and become a respectable contributor. Posters are not thrown off of message boards because they are nice, so it's best for some of you who are relatively new to sit back, watch and learn before diving into some of the battles that on occasion will apper.

[rick]

Hey Baby Cakes




LOL I love that name

[Malarky]

My thread isn't at all questionable.
I clearly stated my objectives.

[Sammy]

Rick, the cakes are no longer baby sized..... just saying.

Malarky....... ;D <nuf snow on the ground for ya>

[Sammy]

Same-O Same-O, MM. Nothing has changed.

[Deleted]

Thanks, Baby Cakes. I guess that since I am so new at this I just don't understand why someone would act that way. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt and look for the best in a situation... however, I will take your voice of experience into consideration in the future.

[Befferz]

Jan 19, 2011 22:52:55 GMT -5 @missmargarita said:

Yup. That's why I said earlier to those who aren't familiar with her to give it time. They'll see what we're talking about.

I already had her figured out before today, and I don't usually feed the trolls, but today I was just bored at work. I'll be better tomorrow. Maybe.

[Lindz85]

Does anyone know anything about her? Age? Married? Kids? Where does she live? Maybe she's got some mental problems??

[Peace Of Mind]

Jan 19, 2011 23:50:12 GMT -5 @missmargarita said:

LOL befferz. It's okay to mess with her as long as you know what you're dealing with.

lifegoeson, she claims to be a doctor in the Chicago area. Single, no kids, early to mid-40s but again, this is the Internet. I could say I'm 23, 5'10" blonde hair blue eyed supermodel working on my MBA. So who really knows? I could also be a patient in the mental ward with schizophrenia.

Awww. How cute. You used my description as an example.

I was thinking more of a drunk in rehab for you. ;D

[Peace Of Mind]

Jan 20, 2011 0:03:29 GMT -5 @missmargarita said:

Pfft!!! Rehab is for quitters, POM. I ain't no quitter!!!

It is??? I thought it was for people who wanted to avoid jail time or make people think they want to quit so their fans still pay to see them??








Disclaimer: This is a joke at the celebrities who use the system and not against people truly trying to get better.

[DebMD (banned)]

Dear Rose,

You are intelligent and I am hoping and independent thinker.

Any lies told often enough do not become the truth, time will tell for you to judge.

I apologize if the topic of my threads are offensive to you.


debmd.

[suzwantstobefree]

Deb, I love your threads. Keep them up!!!! It cannot be all bad if people keep responding to them........

For anyone who doesn't like a poster or their threads, you are free to pass them by. By responding to them, you keep them going.

I have said this a 100 different ways and yet everytime I turn around, there is another complaint about another thread or another poster. So this time it is a little more blunt! And yes I am a newbie, and yes I know I don't know the history, and yes I know everyone was terrible and banned from the MSN board. Can we now give it a rest?

If you don't like DEB, pass over her threads and don't read her postings. As for me, I plan on reading anything I want and responding to anything I want and as long as I am not breaking a rule, I CAN!!!!!!!

[Deleted]

For the record Suz, I wasn't complaining. Merely confused and attempting to get some clarification on the situation.

[NoNamePerson]

I want to know how a Dr. has time to post. I hope not a brain surgeon - taking multi tasking to a whole new level

[efco]

Maybe she's a chiro?

I know a chiro who claims ta be a dr yet is on message boards all day long.

[DebMD (banned)]

Rose,

Feel free to pull up ALL my posts here to read and judge for yourself the kind of person I am. There were many unkind things said about me on your thread.

I do not claim to understand their motives.

Anyway it was good meeting you!!!

[imawino]

::and yes I know everyone was terrible and banned from the MSN board. Can we now give it a rest?::

Suz, I think you are confusing "everyone" with "deb". Most of the posters here are quite normal and did not necessitate a permanent ban from posting on MSN.

[DebMD (banned)]

Today is my day off and I am relaxing

[Peace Of Mind]

As I just told my lovely and beautiful friend earlier and privately, I have no issue with Deb personally. But I have witnessed bannings and trollish behavior in the past from her. But she has never done anything to me. And I've teased her and acted the smart mouth with her and she didn't flip out like somebody has done to me in the past. I've only had a problem with one person in all the years of posting so I can understand that others may have "that somebody" that they don't care for. I try to be understanding and respectful to all here. The more I tease you, the more I like you. If you flip out on me you won't be bothered by me again, I promise.

[DebMD (banned)]

[suzwantstobefree]

Jan 20, 2011 16:42:37 GMT -5 imawino said:

::and yes I know everyone was terrible and banned from the MSN board. Can we now give it a rest?::

Suz, I think you are confusing "everyone" with "deb". Most of the posters here are quite normal and did not necessitate a permanent ban from posting on MSN.

I think that my sarcasm wasn't interpeted correctly, so to further explain.....

If you don't want to interact with Deb because you think she is terrible, then don't. THIS IS NOT THE MSN BOARD. Everytime I say something about just live and let live I get the "you don't know their history on the MSN boards". Let me repeat - this is not the MSN boards. I used a little sarcasm because it seems that this type of thing keeps coming up. (ie: Billy Jean and Muscle UP) If she does something wrong, then let the Mod's handle it, but she hasn't done anything wrong as of yet. At least not that I am aware of (and I would hope that if she does something wrong it will be handled in private by the mods). As a matter of fact, most of her theards have a lot of activities and because of that it shows me that people are interested in what she posts. If someone doesn't like it or her, then don't read her threads. If no one reads or responds to her threads then she will find another place to play.

Everyone have a great night. I am off to spend sometime with my best friend (ie - I am having a life tonight)

[ՏՇԾԵԵʅՏɧ_LԹՏՏʅҼ]

then don't read her threads.

Just because someone starts a thread, it does give that person 'ownership', and they should not try to dictate who can or cannot use that thread. It's open for any other member to read/post on if they choose.

[Sum Dum Gai]

I have to say, now that I know a little of the back story, it makes me want to interact with Deb more. I'm a sucker for psycho.

Not to say that the good doctor is one, but apparently she can give people that impression sometimes, which is good enough for me.

[Deleted]

Jan 20, 2011 19:19:30 GMT -5 Sum Dum Gai said:

I have to say, now that I know a little of the back story, it makes me want to interact with Deb more. I'm a sucker for psycho.

Not to say that the good doctor is one, but apparently she can give people that impression sometimes, which is good enough for me.

Do you like stirring up the hornet's nest too?

[Sum Dum Gai]

I don't mess with hornets as a general rule. I was stung in the cheek as a kid.