WWY Choose - Money or Intimacy

[Savoir Faire-Demogague in NJ]

OK, maybe it was most women. But I specifically remember comments about women and frigid. It's a word you don't hear every day so that sticks in my mind.



ETA: Interesting that a guy who has something about women faking orgasms in his signature line is now saying he never said women are frigid.

That quote is to remind women who think they can easily fake it should also keep in mind that men can fake a relationship. Just a joke....btw, it is pretty easy to see if someone is faking it.

[swamp]

Sept 12, 2012 8:26:31 GMT -5 Savoir Faire-Demogague in NJ said:

OK, maybe it was most women. But I specifically remember comments about women and frigid. It's a word you don't hear every day so that sticks in my mind.



ETA: Interesting that a guy who has something about women faking orgasms in his signature line is now saying he never said women are frigid.

That quote is to remind women who think they can easily fake it should also keep in mind that men can fake a relationship. Just a joke....btw, it is pretty easy to see if someone is faking it.

I did a search for it. I killed the search engine and froze my computer.

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That quote is to remind women who think they can easily fake it should also keep in mind that men can fake a relationship. Just a joke....btw, it is pretty easy to see if someone is faking it.

Oh please, if you are going to say it at least have the guts to own it. "Just kidding" is the whimp's trick.

[zibazinski]

Actually SF, men cannot tell if a woman is faking it. FYI.

[NomoreDramaQ1015]

So how long has the couple in the OP been married? I am curious because DH and I have been together for 8 years. If he came to me one day and announced he had "psychological issues" and couldn't get it up anymore I'll admit that I would raise an eyebrow considering for hte past eight years we've had a robust sex life.

Now if he was willing to go to therapy to address it and discuss it with me so we could hopefully fix it then I'd be willing to stay. If we couldn't fix it and he was wlling to work with me to create a new sex life, then I'd be willing to stay. Like Carl said it isn't like his hands and lips don't work anymore either.

If I was told he couldn't get it up anymore because he has "issues", was tossed a vibrator and told to deal with it, then no I am not going to stay with him. I wouldn't consider him an awesome person no matter what other qualities he had if he refused to acknowledge that I don't have "issues" and work with me to find a middle ground.

[Deleted]

And to answer the OP, yes I would stay.

We have intimacy, great friends, know how to drive each other crazy/wild yet never crossing the line.

We are polar opposites yet we compliment each other perfectly; can talk for hours about stupid shit or spend the day just chilling without saying a word.

We finish each other sentences, know what the person is thinking without saying it or feeling; know when to STFU and just be there or give the person space.

The great sex is just an added bonus. A [use your imagination] here and there will definitely help make it more tolerable though

[8 Bit WWBG]

We're probably going to have to dial some of the specifics back... A few posts have been made that problems could be found with. I encourage those who may have used such words to edit their posts.

-WWBG
YM Administrator

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Sept 12, 2012 8:05:26 GMT -5 Miss Tequila said:

"you are so good at it that it is a valid substitute, I'm sure some of the ladies on this forum would like to know your technique. "

Umm...it's not really that complicated

Complicated to get one's self off? Sure, that is easy. Making it better than sex with another? If it is better than sex with another, you are hanging with the wrong people.

[Deleted]

In the OP, it was mentioned that the issue is psychological not physical. It might actually be an easier problem if it is physical, since there are medications and, um, alternate activities.

Psychological problems may take some of the alternative forms of physical intimacy off the table as well.

But they certainly sound like they have emotional intimacy and a strong partnership in other ways. I hope they can work it out.

[8 Bit WWBG]

...:::"Psychological problems may take some of the alternative forms of physical intimacy off the table as well.":::...

Most definitely -- especially in cases where whatever the problem is, it wasn't a problem before (or turns on and off) and results change.

[8 Bit WWBG]

Apologies, but I've needed to make some creative changes. Minimal innuendo was harmed in the process.

[weltschmerz]

btw, it is pretty easy to see if someone is faking it.
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ROTFLMAO! Okayyyyyy......

[Reckless Roselia]

Both money and intimacy are non-lasting - I'd choose neither of them or both. Hard to choose which one is the best bet.

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As I was praying at the temple mount tonight, this thread came to mind and I shook my head. She giggled.