Dallas
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Post by Dallas on Oct 27, 2011 13:17:46 GMT -5
SO is it ever ok to date a married man?or man to date a married woman ? what if they have kids or they like kinky sex or they just maybe maybe like like to travel and you don't or if they are an average and your a 10 ? what if they want their wife but want a man ? or what if they want you dress up like whore but you wont ? Oh my... Dorothy.. follow the yellow brick road...
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Post by KindeBabe's Kupid Kiss on Oct 28, 2011 7:22:37 GMT -5
Hey Cowboy... CAUTION there are consequences: morally, emotionally, physically, even financially to do these activities.
If you think you can afford these *costs* then go for it.
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Post by KindeBabe's Kupid Kiss on Oct 28, 2011 7:30:53 GMT -5
I contend that the MAN has the control as to if a physical sexual affair happens or not...it is his choice if he penetrates her or not...no matter how alluring she is. I am not of the thought that a woman can get the MAN to do anything he does not want to do
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Post by thatchica on Oct 28, 2011 13:26:39 GMT -5
SO is it ever ok to date a married man?or man to date a married woman ? what if they have kids or they like kinky sex or they just maybe maybe like like to travel and you don't or if they are an average and your a 10 ? what if they want their wife but want a man ? or what if they want you dress up like whore but you wont ? Oh my... Dorothy.. follow the yellow brick road... I don't think it is ever ok to date a married man or woman. For all the reasons you listed, if someone is pondering so much about wanting something different than they should get a divorce and spare their partner the whole "being cheated on experience", go live on their own and chase after their daydreams. There are too many consequences to cheating. And karma is a bitch. I really think people should wait until their mid 30s to get married because too many 40 somethings get this itch thinking they missed out because they married in their early 20s. All of those little daydream fantasies should be worked out in the 20s and while single. Not after being married for how many ever years.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 28, 2011 13:30:43 GMT -5
NO - it is not every okay to be involved with another person that is married. Not Ever - Not for Any Reason or Rationale.
If you do this, you are morally bankrupt. I dropped one friend when I found out she was cheating on her husband - a lack of honesty & decency is not acceptable.
If you need to cheat, don't get married. Get a divorce if you didn't know your own character & decided you needed to cheat later.
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lilyofcourse
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Post by lilyofcourse on Oct 28, 2011 14:08:51 GMT -5
No. It is never ok.
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Post by KindeBabe's Kupid Kiss on Oct 29, 2011 9:31:22 GMT -5
Extrapolation/splitting hairs:
What if they are NOT married but in a relationship?
Does the same hold true?
MY prior statements hold true.
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Post by thatchica on Oct 29, 2011 10:11:06 GMT -5
Extrapolation/splitting hairs: What if they are NOT married but in a relationship? Does the same hold true? MY prior statements hold true. Then break up and move on. Either situation, it is stupid to not be up front about things. If your dating someone and want someone else. Tell your SO, thanks for your time, I'll be going now. Don't needlessly drag someone else through drama because you see someone "hotter" walking by. It is obvious that you don't love the person because you are so easily swayed. So tell them it is over and leave. Why are you looking for justification?
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Post by thatchica on Oct 29, 2011 10:12:31 GMT -5
Or is it that your wanting to chase after someone that is in a relationship??
I suggest leaving it alone. If you convince someone to leave someone else to be with you.. Someone else will convince them to do the same thing to you.
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Post by KindeBabe's Kupid Kiss on Oct 29, 2011 10:49:09 GMT -5
Extrapolation/splitting hairs: What if they are NOT married but in a relationship? Does the same hold true? MY prior statements hold true. I was responding to OP, a difference between a marriage versus a SO relationship, hence my statement of 'splitting hairs'. BTW- Im not in this situation.
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Post by femmefatale on Nov 2, 2011 14:52:56 GMT -5
SO is it ever ok to date a married man?or man to date a married woman ? what if they have kids or they like kinky sex or they just maybe maybe like like to travel and you don't or if they are an average and your a 10 ? what if they want their wife but want a man ? or what if they want you dress up like whore but you wont ? Oh my... Dorothy.. follow the yellow brick road... NO, NO, NO!! It's a recipe for disaster!
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Post by weltschmerz on Nov 7, 2011 15:40:39 GMT -5
I contend that the MAN has the control as to if a physical sexual affair happens or not...it is his choice if he penetrates her or not...no matter how alluring she is. I am not of the thought that a woman can get the MAN to do anything he does not want to do Nonsense. A woman can get a man to do anything she wants.
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servant_of_dog
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Post by servant_of_dog on Dec 7, 2011 23:56:13 GMT -5
My husband was married the entire first five years we dated/lived together. We met in our early 20's, and he was recently out of the Army. He got married while enlisted and stationed at Ft. Bragg, NC. He and his wife moved back to WI after his four years were up, and proceeded to be gutter/goth punks in Madison. In the winter. She shortly ran back to her folks in NC, and to the club scene to which she was accustomed. Wife was already gone when we met. She was gone, and the whole set of circumstances of the marriage were so...unique, that after he broke it off with his girlfriend, I really didn't feel any moral dilemma about having a relationship with him. It took 3 years even after hiring an attorney to handle an in absentia (or whatever it's actually called) divorce, to finally get it resolved.
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